if you want full details as to what the hell is going on then read my last quetion teen pregnancy scare. one of my friends got pregnant at a party where she drank and had sex for the first time she is a freshman i didn't want her to go through it alone so i asked her to marry me she said yes someone overheard my proposal and now everyone thinks it is my baby and they are calling her all kinds of things. the teachers found out and they called our parents my family knows that i did it out of the kindess of my heart but her parents are suing us for child support and they don't wan t her anywhere near me now she left a message for me saying that she was sorry she got me into so much trouble and that she going to get an abortion. the thing is she doesn't have the money for and abortion and she ran away from hjome to go get it. i'm afraid that she might get hurt sick or even die if she gets it from the street and i can't find her by i think i know where to find her wat if i late wat do i do?
2006-11-22 04:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by angel of hell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all if her parents are going to sue for child support they must first prove paternity (DNA test). The only way it can be forced upon you is if you sign a consent stating you wont contest. Secondly, I would go to my parents explain what she has chosen to do and ask them for either financial help or shelter for her. Next, I'm going to tell you you're heart was in the right place but the proctologist called and said he found your head. If you aren't financially stable enough to help her pay for an abortion, how in the world were planning on caring for a family? You should have gone to your parents who seem to be quite understanding and asked them for advice to guide her. And why in the world would you discuss such a topic when others were around? It should have been done some place with only 3 people you her and the baby. Lastly, I would advise you to act like a man again knock on her parents front door and tell them that you are not the father, that their actions and unwillingness to put their personal feelings aside and do whats best for their daughter. What she is going through is punishment enough.
2006-11-22 04:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first i would go and find her and protect her from making any bad decisions. Second i would get a blood test on the baby to show the parents it is not yours but still support her and the baby and be like a father. I would want the truth to come out so you don't look so bad and the true you shows to her and her parents. I say good for you on what you have done that's a real man and i have to give you credit for stepping up men like you are rare you should be proud.
2006-11-22 04:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find her before she does anything she may later regret! If you think you know where she is... go after her! You also need to prove to her parents you are not the father. Maybe a DNA test. It wouldn't be fair for you to pay so much money for child support if it's not yours! If you are still willing to be a father to her child show her how much you really want it. She's in a moment of desperation right now... she needs you now more than ever.
2006-11-22 04:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by DC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...you really are a true friend. I'm so sorry about her situation...doesn't sound like her parents are making it any easier on anybody. If it's "too late" just support her...be there...you can't erase what has already happened. I hope you find her in time though. Good luck!
2006-11-22 04:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had two. With the same guy. He wasnt wearing a condom and he is usually good at pulling out but not that time and i took plan B to be sure. And the other time i got my period late. But im still dating him, for over a year now. And i was 15
2016-03-29 05:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much you should do what your heart tells you to do. In other words follow your heart. <3
2006-11-22 04:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two need to sit down and talk about what you guys want to do f**k her family
2006-11-22 04:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who can help you. Contact me!
2006-11-22 04:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after her!
2006-11-22 04:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...... im sooo confused! a freshman in HIGH SCHOOL, OR COLLEGE?????????????????????????????????????????? it sounds more appropriate for it to be in college, but you never know these days. please send me a message!
2006-11-22 04:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋