and still act like a regular boyfriend, i mean kissing an evrything. H e says that he still loves me, an cares for me. But when i mention dating other people he gets mad, an hug me an act like we go out, I dont know what to think. he says we''ll be friends an if our relatioship gets better then we can date again, im at the poin where i cant wait on him anymore. I do love him but i fel like myemotion are being played with
2006-11-22 04:08:54 · 17 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't go back to being friends. At least not right now. He wants to keep you on hold while he figures out what HE wants. You're just supposed to wait around. That's grade A bullshit! You have to cut off communication for him while you get your own emotions under control. If he decided he just wants to be "friends", then he should understand that you need some space so that you can adjust to it. You don't need his permission to start dating. You got the go-ahead when he broke up with you. Friends don't try to block you from moving on. You can only get played if you allow it. Take the controls away from him. He no longer has the right since he's not your boyfriend anymore.
2006-11-22 04:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's totally playing with your feelings. Don't let him hug you, he broke up with you. It's time for you to move on and if you chose to date other people that is none of his business.. he had his chance with you and he made his choice. Instead of letting him tell you that you can be friends or whatever you tell HIM what you want. Saying there's a possibilty of you guys dating again is just his way of keeping you on the back burner while he checks out the other girls that are around.
2006-11-22 04:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what he's doing is he broke up with you because he thought he had a chance with another girl, now this other girl is either playing with him, or rejected him or he still thinks he has a chance with her, what he's doing with you is he wants to get physical with you, you'll turn into the friend with benefits, until he gets with the other girl, then he completely dumps you, watch he'll disappear for a week or two. don't let him play you like this, you deserve way better than this, move on
2006-11-22 04:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be friends so he can still be near you.Still talk to you,and still be there.But you dont have to wait for him if you want to see other people thats your choice not his.Your not his any more,now you can do whatever you want no matter if he likes it or not.And if he doesnt want you to see other people,it sounds like he only wants you to date him,but how can it be like that if he thinks the relationship isn't better.You already know what you want.And when he knows he'll tell you.Dont wait for him let him come to you.
2006-11-22 04:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER WAIT.
He either wants to be in a relationship with you or he doesn't. If he is playing the "Let's be just friends but not date other people" that is not fair to you at all, it is like saying "I don't want to have a relationship with you, but I also don't want you to move on and have a relationship with someone else."
Dump his ***. Big time. Fine a guy who doesn't play those weirdo mind games.
2006-11-22 04:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think just tell hI'm I'm not your girlfriend anymore and get another boyfriend and see how he reacts. If he freaks out then say im not your girlfriend anymore. Then keep updating on what he says ill be looking for your questions!
2006-11-22 04:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by amber s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard to go from bf/gf to friends especially when yr still hurting. tell him to back off for a while or until you meet someone else. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-22 04:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts are correct...you are being played with. He wants to keep you in his hip pocket for convenience but be free to dally with someone else if he wants to.
2006-11-22 04:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still has fellings for u but he know u might say no or if u have an oldersister he might want to get with her and email me at mcborroughfatta@yahoo.com if you want someone to treat you good.
2006-11-22 04:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by fatta m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a dumbass. Kick him to the curb. Tell him he ain't getting no milk if he done dumped the cow.
2006-11-22 04:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋