men and crying?

Question

Why do some men uncomfortable with (their) woma/en crying?
My man is not, he is very supportive, however I hav ehad boyfriends in the past that were, just curious!
If men are supposed to be so tough why is it a tear weirds them out?

Answer 1

It depends on why she's crying.

When my wife's parents died, she cried a lot and I was very supportive. When her friend Bill died, she cried and I was very supportive. When our son had to have surgery on his inner ear (inside the skull), we cried together. When she miscarried, we cried together.

When I filed for divorce because she has cheated on me for years, she cried. I found that very manipulative. She knew what she was doing. She knew I was hurt. She did it anyway. What did she think was going to happen? It seemed to me like she was just trying to portray herself as the victim. We hate that.

Hope that explains the difference.

Answer 2

For some reason men do not know how to cope with tears in babies or women, Possibly because he was raised to regard crying as a sign of extreme weakness, I recall my parents telling my brothers boys do not cry. Also I have spoken to some men and they feel that some women can cry at the drop of a hat and it is a female ploy to get attention, in a small way I agree as some women can not express how they are feeling and so cry, hopping some one will ask and help.

Answer 3

Well it depends on the man and the way he's been raised,

But to be totally honest its just as troublesome to think you go around crying all the time..

its not Normal, and I can say that some of us are super sensitive..

we do need to cry all the time... so if you find your self crying regularly maybe 2 to 3 times per week

I think its too often.. you might want to talk to the ob/gyn doc, birthcontrol, and hormones can make you weepy.

and they can regulate that now a days.

I mean personally I would hate to start weeping for almost no reason, and sometimes you start asking God to please don't let me cry... how embarrassing.

At that point you gotta admit to your self its a problem..

so hopefully, your fine and just tend to pick the insensitive type

and personally i feel that its not neccessarily that they are insensitive as much as self involved

( my hubby hates to be embarrassed or inconvienieced )

And curious means annoyed in mans lingo.

Answer 4

Hey if a girl wants to cry around me that is cool. I am a very supportive person. I like a little tears.()

Answer 5

Men are weird. As a woman you should know that. Some men just have problems with their woman crying. No exact reason...It's just that they are probably uncomfortable with it...thats all

Answer 6

it's not true with all men, if any guy loves a girl, they have nothing wrong with her crying

Answer 7

whenever i cry, my bf hates it, mostly cuz he thinks its his fault. when its obviously nothing he did, he is very supportive and hugs me and kisses me to make it all better.