well this girl had a crush on me and i being her class mate and friend was with her all the time so that she does not feel hurt. i dont like her and just respect her as a friend. many times she has kinda pressurised me for having feelings, but i politely declined. she has broken this twice and got right after sometime to me!!well last time 6 months ago she said her she wants some time away, i asked her cant we be just friend s and she said it was difficult for her!! now after almost six months she has talked to me and says she has got over it, solved her issues and just wants to be a friend to me, she needs my advices and support she says!!! how much should i trust her and how much will she be friend to me (will she revert back to her insecurity regarding me and again kinda blackmail me emotionally)??She is quite emotional though!!
2006-11-22 04:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, what you need to do is be nice to the girl, but don't make your self emotionally or physically available to her, remove her from the friend, friend status, and put her into the she cool category, know what I mean, if you start sharing things with her, or hanging with her alot again, she might and probelly will go right back to how things were
2006-11-22 04:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand. Perhaps in high tuition you had been little immature and he didnt find you as attracted or whatever. Possibly after these years he now likes you. Next time you see him ask him if he needs to go for a meal some time. If he goes he undoubtedly likes you. If he stands you up or blankly says no then i wouldnt go there. That may imply that he doesnt such as you however needs a bit if hes inebriated. For those who do go on a date take it from there and experience
2016-08-09 23:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont recognize. maybe in extreme college you have been little immature and he didnt locate you as attracted or something. maybe after those years he now likes you. next time you spot him ask him if he needs to decide for a meal a while. if he is going he of course likes you. if he stands you up or blankly says no then i wouldnt flow there. that would mean that he doesnt such as you yet needs somewhat if hes inebriated. in case you do flow on a date take it from there and enjoy
2016-10-17 09:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is opsest with you give her a chanch but be caerful to not give her fals hope. other wise it should be better for you to stay away from her but dont be hard on her poepel who develop opsesion are likely to be very sad poeple or someone who has family issuse. good luck i know it can be very hard.
2006-11-22 04:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by manuel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to her. Dont get much involved. Keep your distance and your peace.
2006-11-22 04:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you but she doesn't want anyone to have you! My fiance had a "Friend" like this and when I came into his life she went mental and tried to "fight me for him" (her words, not mine!) She is not worth your energy mate, be friends with people who respect you, not want to own you.
2006-11-22 04:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
F**K her, Never accept sloppy seconds!! She's using you until a new stud will come along to bang her!
2006-11-22 04:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mango S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still wnts to be moe than friends
2006-11-22 04:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by snowprincess20010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may as well do it to see if anything comes of it.
2006-11-22 04:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away it could be a trap....
2006-11-22 04:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by Care Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋