Im dating this guy and he can not make up his mind. he can not decide if he wants to move forward with me or go back with his ex. because i have such strong feelings for him Im willing to stick around even though i know this may not turn out to be in my favor. the thing is turkey day is coming and she is comign back to town. I asked him how he felt about it and if they were going to see eachother. i thought it was a harmless question. we are romatically involved but he is also a friend.
he finds it weird that i would ask that. he thinks there is more to my question than i am letting on. i dont see it. he thinks im trying to save face and act like i care when i dont. he thinks im pushing him more towards her so that we are no longer in limbo. thats insane! why the hell would i do that? i really do care and i want him to be happy whether it be with me or her. i mean duh! i hope its me. but i have to be realistic, i am not guaranteed anything.
2006-11-22 04:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Romina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you just want to be friends until this issue is resolved. I think if he still has feelings for her and has admitted that to you then he's going to see her tomorrow anyways whether you like it or not. I think that he may secretly be hoping for them to recapture what they once had. I don't know about you but I wouldn't want some guy to tell me "Well I hooked back up with my ex, so I'm finished with you now".... no way! He might even be thinking that he's going to just stay with you until they get back together. People don't like to be alone and sometimes they do that. You never really just forget about an ex girlfriend or boyfriend that's impossible, but if he's innocent then he should have no reason to get upset with you just for asking a question and he should be able to talk with you about it! It will be hard but I'd tell him that I need a break until he's 100% sure he wants you and only you! After you tell him that, if he doesn't want a relationship with her again, he'll say that he knows what he wants and that's you but if he agrees then he might want to be with her again. Just because he agrees doesn't mean that he doesn't love you he might also just need to clear his head a little and really get over her. Seems to me like he's keeping his options open and you should too!
2006-11-22 04:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only kind of choice a man should have when it comes to a relationship is which sexual position to try first. Life is not a toy store. You don't get to pick which girl you want to play with before you throw her away for a new one. Stop being used and find someone who can make the choice to be with just you. Don't you derserve something better than this? What do you want?
2006-11-22 04:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are guaranteed if you stick with this guy is: Heartbreak.
He is clearly playing you. And you are being a doormat and giving this guy everything he wants without making any demands of your own in return. Seriously. I would cut him loose and tell him that when he makes up his mind, you MIGHT be available or you might not. His reaction to that will tell you if there are any Thanksgivings in your future with him.
2006-11-22 04:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already 1/2 a "Psycho", do you really want to be around when the other 1/2 arrives ? It is'nt going to get better, MOVE ON ! TOO MUCH BAGGAGE ALREADY !
2006-11-22 04:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, legit question. But he has to pretend to be hurt by your asking cuz he is proly gonna see her and them blame your question for that
2006-11-22 04:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just a little stressed give him time an apologize
2006-11-22 04:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by angel of hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question you may need to moove on.
2006-11-22 04:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is never any ganrantees
happy turk day
2006-11-22 04:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋