My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. He's in college about 3 hours away and I'm still in High School. He comes home every 2 weeks or so but now he is looking around for a job and if he gets one I don't know when I'll be able to see him because it's not like he'll be able to come home that often and get off work. I'm scared that we possible won't make it through. I don't know if I should tell him, and if I do I don't know how to say it to him. I don't wanna break up with him because I love him way too much. What should I do?
2006-11-22 03:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the two of you are meant to be together then you will be despite the distance thing. However, distance can make the heart grow fonder or drift farther away. If you love him then you owe it to yourself and to him to try and make it work but talk to him how you feel and express your concerns.
Good luck!
2006-11-22 03:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one he needs a job so support him with that and someone has to pay the bills...so if you don't want him to work because you might not see him then you need to get a job on the days he is in school and give him the money!!! If you guys were meant to be you will make it. If you support him he will love you more for it if not you deserved better, work and time does not get in the way of real love.
2006-11-22 03:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by In love 4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should chill, and take it one day at a time and don't worry about what will or will not happen. Just take it one day at a time and see what falls into place and what doesn't. You have only been together for 5 months and that is a short, VERY short period of time to love someone WAY TOO MUCH. All will be well, don't say anything and just let all fall into place as it will. Blessed be and happy holidays.
2006-11-22 03:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk this through with him. If your thinkin that maybe things wont work out because of him working or going to college or whatever then you need to tell him. Just be completely honest with him. Let him know exactly how you feel. And if he really loves you then I think things would work out for the better.
Good luck.
2006-11-22 03:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by fashiondivine01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't try, how do you know you won't make it through? Once he settles into his job, map out both your schedules and come up with a suitable compromise to maximise your time together. Long-distance relationships suck, and you have to work hard at it if you really treasure it. Don't give up so easily without giving it a chance.
2006-11-22 03:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Andromeda_Carina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See... this is the thing about love. If you really do love him, then you should feel capable of telling him anything, including how you feel. Its OK to question the stability of your relationship. If he gets a job, when will you two spend time together? So I get that... but if you really do love him, then you have to talk to HIM about this. Relationships are based on TRUST and COMMUNICATION and if you dont have BOTH of those... then you dont have a relationship anymore.
2006-11-22 04:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it and if you don't see him then you need to find someone else- there are plenty more great guys to date. if you only have the title of bf/gf but hardly do things to gether then its not worth being a couple.
2006-11-22 03:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋