let me explain you that firstly i thought that its just attraction,not love,but when he went to another city for his further studies i was trying to forget him but it was just impossible for me to do so,i began to miss him badly,always unwillingly i use to think about him.when he was here i think he was also liking me but never expressed his feelings,nor i.
plz.help me to guess that is it love or attraction?
2006-11-22 03:50:44 · 6 answers · asked by SIMONA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a crush of someone that left without resolution of what could have or couldnt have been. More like a fantasy relationship that in your dreams could have been perfect.
2006-11-22 03:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Max Danger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger (and still sometimes even now) I would think I was in love with girls I had dated. I would be thinking about them constantly and daydreaming about spending the rest of my life with them. The thing is though, is that this feeling is just temporary. When you meet someone you really like, and get to know them, your brain produces a chemical called dopamine. Dopamine makes you really happy. But eventually your body stops producing this chemical. (Which is why some marriages start out perfect but then go to crap.) Within a few weeks or months you will be fine. I would just try to find interesting things to pass the time and keep my mind off of him, as hard as that sounds.
They say the best cure for a broken heart... is another man :)
2006-11-22 12:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember something even though you may really like this guy you still have two years till your an adult (plz dont take this as me treating you like a child) you can wait another year or so and then he could be done with his further studies and then you can feel free to approach him with your feelings and then if life works out you could get in a true loving relationship that lasts a lifetime.
On a side note life is rough then you die so a little patience with this relationship will help allot.
2006-11-22 12:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by sgt.kropf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.
2006-11-22 11:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is love. try contacting him and tell him how much u miss him. and ask him if he misses u too. will the boy meet u often?? if so then u can propose him else forget it. with time, everything will be ok
2006-11-22 11:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he friend of yours first or just an aquaintence. If he was a friend and you feel this way get to know him better.
2006-11-22 11:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋