In a relationship for about 6 months with a guy and everything is going well. He all of a sudden starts acting childish and playing games with your feelings. Should you cut him off or try to figure out what brought this change all of a sudden. He has cursed you out, but still tells you that he loves you. He has possibly put your business out at work and all the females are asking you questions about him. What should be done about him? Pls Help.
2006-11-22 03:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by sexceeladie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. Actions speak louder than words.
2006-11-22 03:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell him to not let the door hit him in the butt on his way out of your life. He's lying when he tells you he loves you and then plays games with your feelings. You can figure all day long until you know why he does what he does but that doesn't get you anywhere and you'll still be left having to decide if the pleasure of his company is worth the pain he causes you.
2006-11-22 03:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him quick! Be available to finding someone else who will treat you with consideration and respect for your feelings. When you love someone you do not, I repeat do not curse them out or play any games. No, sorry to say this, but this is a no-win situation. Be grateful (tomorrow is Thanksgiving!) that you found out earlier than later.
2006-11-22 03:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by lovelycutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him life is too short and to straighten up. If not then play his games but play them with another man. See the other guy when you want to. Always remember to have safe sex. If he does not care about your feelings he sure won't give a damn about your health. Drop his *** like a hot brick
2006-11-22 03:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by GangstaHousewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is usually the amount of time for getting to know someone, and if he is acting this way after the 6 months than he is showing you his true self! Believe what he is showing you: the emotional abuse!
2006-11-22 03:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sylvia W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is tryin to play you. If he loved you, he wouldnt curse you out, or put your business out there for anyone else. It all depends on how you feel about him as well.. If your not too attached.... then let him go!!
2006-11-22 03:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by M J M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He sounds abusive to me. (verbal and emotional). He's testing you to see how much you will take and still let him deal with you. He's sending you mixed messages for sure. He sounds like you are not the only one he's dealing with. He tells you that he loves you so he can keep you there for a back-up plan.
2006-11-22 03:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by stella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a psycho guy perhaps. Try to find out more and see if he changes.. if not, throw him out like last night's garbage I guess.
2006-11-22 03:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by djdep13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump him. This is just a taste of what he would be like if you ever got married to him.
2006-11-22 03:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get off the emotional roller coaster, and find someone more loyal and consistent
good luck
2006-11-22 03:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋