We dont go to the same school together and we have been going out for about 3 days now. Is it normal to try to talk to them everyday before the first date. I have talked to her on the phone a lot and I dont want to seem like a pest calling her everyday. Is it normal to call everyday or should I wait a while. Do girls get annoyed by that sort of thing I need help from people who have dealt with this sort of thing before and they have seen the outcome.
2006-11-22 03:36:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's good to call everyday, your showing her you care, if you weren't calling then it be someone else. Just as long as your calling once a day and not 5 or 10 times a day then your OK. Even if she's not available when you call as long as your leaving her a message she will see you thought about her. If she cares about you she will call you back. When you call to many times it starts to feel a little stalkerish.
2006-11-22 03:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have met her, then you can call her everyday. but only once a day. If you call more than once a day she will get annoyed. If you don't feel comfortable calling her before the first date then don't. It doesn't matter either way. I would at least call her once and ask her if it would be okay if you called her everyday. If she says no then don't call until she wants you to. If she says yes then call her ONCE a day. I hope I helped and good luck on your first date. One last thing, always respect her, even if it's a little thing as not calling when she tells you not to. If you respect her and listen to her, you will gain her respect and trust.
2006-11-22 11:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by big bang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about annoying her than you should just ask her when she would like for you to call her. 3 days is a very short time. Girls love talking on the phone beside shopping it is on the top of the list. Just next time you are talking to her, and before you hang up, just ask "when would you like for me to call you back?" She will tell you. Be very open with each other and it could last a long time.
2006-11-22 11:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i know is that if both of you have the same feelings for each other and it's strong, i dont think it matters how much you talk a day. both of you wouldnt mind talking to each other because you guys like each other and that you both feel comfortable talking to each other. if you guys just had a one date and that was it and both didnt plan for sec date then..i your relationship with each other are not that strong so let it be,dont call her too much.
and if you guys are going out like bf/gf then yeah it's good to talk to each other everyday. it proves that you do like her a lot and you like to hear from her everyday , and she never say anybad regarding about the phone calls then she like it when you call her.
you know..it wouldnt hurt to ask her if she cares if you call her everyday? at least this way you get the true and right answer from her.
2006-11-22 11:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok calm down. i had a bf this summer and he was in Atlanta in summer school and i was in Cincinnati. everyday i would call him at 3:00 and ask him how his day was. and he would do the same. then when i came back to atlanta we broke up because we didnt go to the same school. same county but not the same school. i say find someone who you can see everyday because those kinds of relationships dont last long!
2006-11-22 11:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl and i like when a guy calls me all the time when we first start dating.especially if we have good conversations.some girls dont like it to find out if she does or dosent call her twice in an hour can see how she answers the phone ,if she sounds annoyed or if she is happy and laughing then u have your answer.
2006-11-22 11:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like it when guys call but just not all the time. Since you 2 have only been dating 3 days then you shouldn't call her every day but more like every other day that way she want get aggervated with you.
2006-11-22 11:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talked to my girlfriend almost everyday months before we even started going out, so there is nothing wrong with talking to he everyday if you are going out.
2006-11-22 11:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by camo_sak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good to see that you seem keen on her. I am sure she won't be annoyed by u calling her you could even just send her a cute text throughout the day to show her your thinking of her, I'm sure she would love to know you care about her good luck.
2006-11-22 11:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by imcoolendof123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she seems like she doesn't have alot to say when you call she prolly just need a break. girls often like seeing their bf more than just talkin on the phone. try to plan dates often if you don't see her much, been in similar situation here.
2006-11-22 11:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋