Me and my dude have been talking ever since the beginning of Sept. he has been locked up but he got out on?

Question

Oct 7th ever since then he has not been spending as much time with me. He'll chill but not as long as he did when he was in work release i really have strong feelings for him and he tells me he is in love with me. The thing is he do little things like keep his cellphone on him at all times. He have phone calls, he goes somewhere else and takes them, and it took me a long time to get his cellphone #.He lies about everything. He also told me that since I had sex with him i am his foreva. What do you think i should do. P.S. I might be having his child. So please keep that in mind!

Answer 1

Men that are locked up need something to cling onto. He may not like or love u but will tell u anything to keep u coming to see him, writing, giving him packages, or accepting his collect calls. Now that he is out he doesnt need u anymore. He is showing that in suddle ways with his negative actions. We as women can do bad by ourselves so u dont need him. Hve your baby and if he doesnt want to sincerely be a part of u and the baby's life thats fine. Get him for child supposrt and there r many services that will help u along the way with your child. good luck

Answer 2

I think you should give him some space. Let him do his thing and go on with your life as if those little annoying things he does don't even phase you. Find out if your pregnant and let him know whether you are or not. It sounds like once he had sexual relationships with you he's kind of lost interest. Did you tell him that you might be pregnant? That could be it as well. It probably scared him because you might not have been that "foreva" he's claiming you to be.

Answer 3

Ok, I JUST got out of a situation EXACTLY like this, and TRUST me....get out before its too late!! The only reason I got away is cause he got locked up again, so I just left his sorryass...the reason he takes phone calls like that is cause its a girl, unless he's a drugdealer, or he claims something, then it could be nation/or buisness, but either way those are all bad things! He'll do nothing but bring you down dude, for real!! You'll be hot with 5-0 and it will be nothing but heartbreak n DRAMA that you DONT need, ESPEICIALLY if you got pregnant! You dont want to have to waist yo time n money on a guy who just wanted you around for his convienence, like when hes locked up, girl, GET AWAY, drop that zero n get with a hero, TRUST ME!!! You'll regret it later. N if he lies about everything, then theres no trust, and if theres no trust theres no relationship.....holla at me if u need to

Answer 4

Honestly? Sounds like maybe you arent his only "foreva". Liars do not make good partners in life, could you really live with someone you cannot trust? Most ppl couldnt. I realize that you may be having his child which makes it more difficult but the fact is , if he is hiding things from you and lying to you.. well what kind of father would he be?

Answer 5

hes playing you. If he stepping out to take his calls away from you, and wouldnt even give you the number, f that. It's wrap city. He gunna tell you what you want to hear so you will stay around

Answer 6

This man has a lot of secrets and a criminal past. Keep that in mind as you move forward with this, baby or not.

Answer 7

umm he is using you that is what it sounds like to me..and well he is a a ex con come on..you can do way better than that ok.. way better... and about the kid thing.. i would tell him.. ok

Answer 8

You might be? Wait a minute, are like half-preggers?

Answer 9

sounds like a wrap if you ask me. If your pregnant with his child.. well that sucks...

Answer 10

Run.........trust me!