I love my girl very very much and don't want to lose or hurt her especially now cuz she is pregnant with our first child.Its just that these feelings are almost impossible to ignore and this other woman is one of my childhood friends that i grew up with and we got intimate several times before we never really broke up cuz we were never really in a serious relationship back then we were jus foolin around and now we discover that we are both in love with each other. WHAT SHOULD I DO? and no i am not a playa or anything like that. I am jus confused.
2006-11-22 03:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by rovin d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you just need closure... love is a strong feeling and thats all well and fine but you have a family now and should just walk away from that..think if the shoe was on the other foot and this was your g/f thinking this...it would crush your world right...some times we want bigger and better when we have perfection sitting in front of us... dont react right away sit on this and truely think it out.. its a huge choice you have to make my friend
2006-11-22 03:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I am in the same situation right now....except i'm that childhood friend your in love with...
It's really hard to know that the guy I've always had a connection with has been in a long term relationship with his gf for a year...but than again...we both feel as if we have found our ultimate soul mates. I always wonder how he makes love to her but tells me that each time he has sex he only thinks about me...Crazy triangle...
Someone's bond to get hurt...
2006-11-22 03:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Surf me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women folk are complicated, i'm one, so I ought to recognize this! She feels like the form of female who's 'stricken'. it rather is easily no longer popular to have maximum of problems, incredibly in this type of short volume of time. somewhat some women do it for interest, inspite of the undeniable fact that it is the incorrect thank you to get it. How did she finally end up in a issue the place she had a stalker? became attacked and blackmailed? I consistently ask myself 'What area of the subject am I?' and that i think of this is a question your chum needs to ask herself. All in all, she sounds like hassle. You sound like a stunning guy and he or she is taking benefit of your type nature. Do you think of she is purely at present lacking in some male interest and he or she recognize's she would have the capacity to %. you up and drop you each and every and every time she likes? It additionally sounds like she could desire to like 'the chase'. somewhat some women and adult men savour chasing one yet another yet whilst they get it, they do no longer prefer it anymore. the buzz is long previous. If I have been you, i might take a step back. She broke your heart as quickly as and he or she would have the capacity to extra effective than in all probability do it lower back. in case you present day lady chum gets wind of what is going on she would have the capacity to be ever so upset. regardless of in case you do no longer see your self settling inclusive of your present day lady chum i would not flow back to the girl you have stated... do no longer spend your existence looking in the rear view mirror. Be there for this female yet possibly do no longer respond to all of her messages and calls. permit her recognize you have your person existence and he or she would have the capacity to't purely stroll throughout you. each and all the final, somewhat wish issues artwork out for you.
2016-10-17 09:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u did not seem confused when u were about to create babies with ur current girlfriend! it would be a real bad state to be in if ur boyfriend ditches you when your pregnant. Stop thinking about your wellbeing and be friend s with the other woman, if that is possible.
2006-11-22 04:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide who is the best for you. If there are absolutely no feelings between you and the mother of your unborn child then you must say something. Do you want your child growing up into a loveless family!
:)
2006-11-22 03:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jen (G cup UK) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boy. you need to get your priorities straight. you can't have two women. i think your pregnant girlfriend who you care about so much, deserves to know that you really love someone else. you opened yourself up to finding someone else, you don't love your girl very much.
2006-11-22 03:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by beccaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right on.. well all i can say is pick one.. i mean your kid or a chick..and if i was the gurl that is pregnant i would be pissed but than i wouldnt/
2006-11-22 03:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by i love my son wyatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋