we have been together 10 years, we had a fight and he will not return my calls. Do you think if he wanted to break up after 10 years he would tell me is he just mad? help plz im so depressed
2006-11-22 03:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long has he not returned your calls, if for weeks then yeah, he is having a fling....
2006-11-22 03:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by hinduhammer8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years is a long time to invest on someone to throw it away by not calling. How long since the fight? If it has been more than a week, then start packing his stuff and leave it in the garage, then change the locks. If it has only been a day, then give him time. I dont know what the fight was about either, and these are things that would help me to understand whats going on here.
2006-11-22 03:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just mad, if he really loves you, he will come back. If he doesn't come back to you, he doesn't really love you, and you don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you, do you? Give him some time to cool off. When me and my husband get into a fight we don't talk for 2 days sometimes, and then out of nowhere one of us will give the other a hug and kiss and we both apologize. Everyone needs a cool off period. If he goes a week or two without calling, then I would get worried.
Apparantly you love him, or you wouldn't be worried about it, so just give him time and if he loves you as much as you love him, then I am sure he is feeling depressed also. Some people are just stubborn and need a while to get over it.
Good luck....please try not to be depressed, it makes me depressed just thinking about it.
2006-11-22 03:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he does not want to breake up he just needs sometime to his self to think things through and 10 years is alot so i dont think he would want to let you go.Dont call him wait untill he calls you another reason why he might not answer the phone is because he might think your stallking him because of how much you keep calling him .
2006-11-22 03:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years doesn't disappear after one quarrel. Just give him time. Not only is he working through the problem, he is probably working through some guilt and pride issues. He'll be back. Just tell him it's ok but you want to get past whatever it was you two argued about.
2006-11-22 03:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you love him alot...maybe he is just really upset ..and need time for himself...I really hope that he doesnt want to break up...try sending him something sweet letting him know that you are sorry..you know him better than any of us..so if you guys have had a stable and wonderful relationship so far then hopefully he is just coolin off...I wish you the best..because I know that when you love someone and things happen in the relationship to make the other person start feeling like the relationship is coming to and end..its not a nice feeling
2006-11-22 03:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time you both had a bad argument and of course he is mad, so he needs time to cool off...If he wanted out of this relationship then he would have done that when you and he had the arguement...Just give him some time it will be alright have faith and you will see things will be alright.
2006-11-22 03:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys have been together that long you already married lol.. no he shouldnt break up with you or depends on what you 2 were fighting about if was something serious then you got problems. if was something simple dont worry just give some space...
2006-11-22 03:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by mjcchef16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 yrs is a long time, the tie between you and your boyfriend doesnt breaks easily. perhaps, your boyfriend is just mad for a short period of time.
do not think too much, time is the best medicine =)
2006-11-22 03:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by dennis h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long has it been? give him some time to cool off about a week. if he doesnt call u in a week u have to find him and talk to him face to face. its the only way to get an answer
2006-11-22 03:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋