2006-11-22 03:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by ©smegma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my dad passed away in 99 but we were very very close and i miss him so much not a day goes by i dont still think about him.. my dad was one of a kind he was 46 when i was born and 54 when my brother was born and he only had one hand (born that way) but you would never know it he did everything we do and more. he was very smart and kind and never talked bad about anyone he was always there for me .. i only seen my dad cry twice in his life and the first time is when i moved out and the second was when i got married.. every night i would call my dad with some stupid question that i really didnt need the answer to and he would pick up the phone and say what do you need to know this time that was our way of saying good night and i love you..... the day he died was the most painful thing i have ever went through... he was my hero i could go on for hrs with storys of this man but anyway thanks for letting me share my story from a daddys girl... WOW after reading the other answers i feel so very lucky i guess maybe my dad was a hero im so srry that everyone couldnt have that with there dad but dont think i had it made because its my mom that i dont have a good relationship with
2006-11-22 06:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a young girl I loved him with total abandon and devotion...my dad walked on water. As I matured, however, and began developing, he withdrew from me and stopped hugging and touching me. I guess he was either put-off by my becoming a woman, or perhaps afraid of abuse issues...I don't know, but it really hurt me and I did not understand it. The end result is that I looked for what was lacking in other guys...I am not permanently damaged but wish it could have been a little more affectionate before he died. I love him forever, tho'.
2006-11-22 03:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I grew up intimidated by my father. Only because he was such a large man with a very "strong" voice of authority. Went through my fair share of his trying to control my life through my early adult life. After one MAJOR blow out....and my standing my ground with him..he has a new respect for me as an adult, and our relationship now is one I wouldn't trade for the world. My dad is Great!!
2006-11-22 05:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but i am one of the teens who grew up without a father. I was and still is being raised by a single parent. Me n my father have a good relationship wen we want to. Sometimes it can be a mes.
2006-11-22 03:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25 and I will tell the truth.
As a child, I barely had a nice relationship with him. We barely talk to each other. I am not open to him. I always feel uncomfortable talking and expressing my feelings to him. He is a very strict and old-fashion man.
2006-11-22 04:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up living with my father, My mother died when I was only 4 years old. So all my life I have lived with my dad. It was hard talking to him about "Girl" stuff but he understood. Now I talk to him about anything really. Yes we have arguments, but what parent and child doesn't. He never hit me. So i'm lucky, My father is awesome.. .
2006-11-22 03:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None. I was adopted. My sister found him and I send him now pictures of my kids and occational holliday cards. But I don't ever hear back from him.
I live with it without a problems, there is bigger fish to fry :)
2006-11-22 04:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by greenie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none, my father passed away when I was in the 4th grade. over 36 yrs ago.
2006-11-22 04:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NONE, thankfully.........
2006-11-22 03:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋