Is my BF gay?

Question

I have been dating my BF for 4 years and I was on my
computer, and I was just searching around, and I found
was seemed to be male gay porn temp internet files in
the history. ALLOT of it. We lived together.
So I had to confront him, and he said, there is
nothing wrong with it, he was just curious. Am I
suppossed to believe that? I also found a website
called ATL.com in my history on the computer, so I
created an account, it's a sexual account for people
looking for people....etc..so I searched for him,
under male looking for male, and he was the FIRST
picture to pop up with his penis as the picture, I
know this, because I took the picture while we were
having sex a couple weeks before. I again confronted
him about this, and he said he had it under make
searching for woman, but no girls were responding to
him, so he put it under Male looking for male?
So, my question to you, is.....Is my boyfriend really
gay? Or curious? Do all guys look? Or maybe he is
Bi??

Answer 1

buy a strap on and offer him a ride. If he take up the offer, well... You have your answer.

Answer 2

There are allot of different senerials for what your bf is doing. I would say that if you are not comfortable with this info that you have found and discovered. Get out of the relationship now. YOU have no idea how long this has been going on and if he has gone out and done any sexual things with someone else of the same or opposite sex. After 4 years of being with him I am sure you are no longer using protection unless it is the pill and that doesn't protect you from diseases, just getting pregnant as you know. I am sorry you had to find things out this way, but now that you have, and you already know what it means, you have a SERIOUS decision to make for yourself and your own future. I highly suggest you go and get tested for Std's. I am so sorry for you finding all this out now. But I am glad you found out before you and him decided to get married. Blessed be and good luck. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season despite all you have found out about him.

Answer 3

It's kind of tricky. He is confused for sure, if not more. The porn thing, not such a big deal. My best friend is gay, and he has straight porn, it doesn't mean he's straight. Basically guys like to find different things to get them off. As far as that site goes, either way, if your together he shouldn't have been making a profile like that. However, instead of getting angry, you need to sit down with him, and let him know that you care about him, and that you just want to know what's going on. He might just deny the whole thing, it's hard enough for someone that is confidant in their sexuality to come out of the closet, for a guy that has been "striaght" all of his life it will be even harder. Good luck, I hope that everything works out for you.

Answer 4

Why look if u r not curious? Why put an add if u werent eventually going to out a plan in motion? All things that raise an eye brow. It is just a matter of time before he fully comes out of the closet. Either u ask him to give u straight answers or move on dont waste another 4 years life is too short.

Answer 5

Let's put it this way -- do you like at porn of other women? If you were curious about lesbian sex, would that lead to you posting pics of yourself? If YOU were looking for a male sexual partner and couldn't find one, would your next option be to post pics of your breasts or genitalia on websites looking for other women to have sex with? Probably not, I'm thinking. Why? Because you don't want to have sex with women.

So, yes. If your bf has as many gay websites marked and is posting pics of his penis, he's gone beyond curious and is ready to experiment. He may be bisexual or he may be gay. But in any case, do you have an open relationship that permits multiple sex partners for the two of you?

Answer 6

Babygirl the man is gay drop that *** to the curb..... no man would be curious about being gay no where in his mind. Now to prove this get like a very sexy man and leave for about an hour and ask the man if your bf had any feelings towards the decoy and if he says yes you know what to do, but if not then just say you were CURIOUS!!!

Answer 7

Does it really matter what he is ?? He posted his penis up looking for someone. Does it really matter if he was looking for male or female ?? He is your bf and shouldn't be looking for anyone. This guys issues have issues. Drop him and if dont drop him wear a condom every single time. You never know how much gay sex he is having or if he hooked up with any women.

Answer 8

LOL HES GAYER THAN A 2 DOLLAR BILL. would you accept it if he was looking for females. what an idiot to come up with that excuse. "uhhh well i was trying to cheat on you and nobody liked my penis so i posted it on male 4 male"

maybe you idiots deserve eachother if you dont think hes gay already

Answer 9

He is definitely a closet GAY.......
Look at all the evidence, it's self explanatory.
Also, why would he be trying to meet other women behind your back? That would be a problem to if he wasn't already gay.

Answer 10

He's definitely either gay or bi. No staight guys I know would be interested in going on those sites for 'fun'. Get him to be honest with you or leave. He may be confused hasn't come to realize who he is yet. Don't be angry or upset, it's just who he is.

Answer 11

I'm going to go with a definite yes on the bi. If he stops wanting you, then you know he's gone completely to the other side.