Guys- what does this mean?

Question

have a guy friend (yes- only friend and both of us are completely happy with that). He was using my computer today, and when he left, he accidentally left a video from this site up on my Windows Media Player http://www.girlvinyl.com/eel/ The video is of a Japanese girl (I think, I closed it really quickly) putting eels in a place they do not belong (don’t open this video if there are children present or if you have a weak stomach, like me lol)
So my question is this, is this like some bizarre fetish, like is he getting a kick out of this or is it like “Oh nasty, man. Lets watch it again!” male attitude? I don’t know what it means, but after that I went and checked the history on my computer and he went strait to the website, it wasn’t a Google search, so I guess that means he has been there before.

Answer 1

It sounds like the sort of thing men send to each other in emails saying 'check this out'. So I wouldn't read too much into it. The link was probably in an email which is why he didn't have to search for it.

Answer 2

I don't really know why he watched the video, but I watched a little bit and I think it's flat out gross. If someone sent me that in an email I'd prolly reply back saying "wtf is wrong with you?!" If I was hanging out with a guy and opened that, I wouldn't say “Oh nasty, man. Lets watch it again!" either. I mean the idea of it is kinda wild but watching the video is not my idea of a good time.

and yeah I'm a guy. Oh well, alot of guys have their bizarre secrets, although it's weird that he's watching this on YOUR computer lol. I wouldn't worry about his well-being too much. If he's got 20 gigs of eel porn on his computer though, you should probably get help for him RIGHT AWAY lol.

Answer 3

First of all, I went to see it, you cannot "judge" or have an opinion on something you don't know or haven't seen it. The morbidity and "perverse side" of something like this will always attract some people to see "something you don't see everyday". However, I have to admit that (for me) there was no appeal to it, be it sexual, sensual or even of curiosity. But I have to wonder one thing: If it was me looking at this on your PC I sure as hell would have closed it and made sure you never knew I was there, so is he "sending a message"... maybe he wants to know what you think about something so "shocking", is she open to kinky stuff? If that's the case, and I say this as a man, drop him sweetie. 1- because he should talk to you as a person and reach an "agreement" with you on what is acceptable in sexuality and what you wish to discuss/see with him as a friend 2- He is devious (if he did this intentionally) 3- He has got weird sexual orientations. But I would confront him, something like "what the hell were you thinking? This is MY PC, I don't want this crap on it!" (even if it is not a downloaded file).

Answer 4

When men spend time looking at porn it sears their conscience and never really satisfies their desire. They will only need to consume more of the same or worse and will never be fulfilled. This type of activity like going to "gentleman's" clubs can drive a wedge in a relationship because most men can not get at home what they see in the club or on the porn site. I would sit him down and ask him to cease such activity or discontinue the relationship.

Answer 5

Probably one of his friends told him to go check it out...doesnt mean hes sick or anything.

Answer 6

You better delete those links from your posting before you get reported for abuse. That is disgusting.

Answer 7

eww, yeah i think guys like all that nasty stuff. you should ask him about it and see how he reacts