okay. tell me if im weird or something...
i have always had a boyfriend, i love guys. but i always find myself looking at girls. i dont think im gay, bcuz i really like guys, but i just look at girls alot and i dont know if thats normal. is it? or does it mean im gay, or bi, or what? im just really confused, and i dont have anyone i can talk to about this...please help.
2006-11-22 03:17:37 · 30 answers · asked by Erin P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are beautiful! But how you look at them and in what way you observe them answers your own question.
If you look at a girl like she is beautiful and leave it at that then that's normal.
If you look at a girl and say damn her boobs are big then that's also normal.
But if you look at a girl and be like GOT DAMN she's sexy I'd love to eat her pussy. Then um sweety you may be bisexual or bicurious!
Believe me I've been there done that and now I'm just back to Damn she's beautiful...
2006-11-22 03:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by mentalchallenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no telling what your preference is unless you act on what you feel at that moment. If you insist on fighting the feeling then you will never find out what your true outcome will be and you will always wonder IF. You may not understand why you feel this way, it may just be something that you want to try and don't know how to approach the situation. I say that if you really have a secure relationship then ask your partner if he would not mind if you brought another female into the bedroom and see what his reaction would be. Then you should find a female that would be up for the proposition and would not be willing to disrupt your house hold or relationship.
2006-11-22 11:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by sexceeladie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be bi, but almost all girls find themselves looking at girls cuz you wonder if your boyfriend would think she's ugly or not. Dont worry. You belong to guys. Maybe have a 3 some to figure it out. Just Kidding. But you are straight and you're not weird
2006-11-22 11:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by MRz.Nels0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry so much about this, some chicks are hot! That aside, even if you were bi, you would still be the same person on the inside. It can be scary but it is not like you have to donate your eyes to science here, you just have to figure some stuff out. Try having an experience with another girl, if you dont like it then you dont like it. Experimentation honey, it can do wonders!!
2006-11-22 11:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im gay and i dont think or consider that looking at ur same sex is being bi but if u find urself thinking and liking the same sex more than tho oppset sex then i would consider thaat u rethink about if ur stright or gay there is nothing wrong with being gay even though people say that there is.. when all my peeps found out they were like thats weird but then they grew to be ok with the fact that im bi
2006-11-22 16:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by amanda d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal im 110% straight and love guys but I look at girls sometimes to. There is nothing wrong with it depending on why your looking and the feelings you get when your looking so your not weird dont worry.
2006-11-22 11:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a bi-sexual man I thought I would weigh in. I think that most people do the same as you, BOTH men and women. Nothing to be ashamed or afraid of. Let yourself go and you will learn that it's ok to look at anything you may find attractive.
2006-11-22 11:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you are looking at these girls.. if you look at them in a way thinking that they are really pretty and you wish you looked like that or wish you could get the type of guys they get, that should be fine. All girls tend to compare themselves with other girls, thats normal. If you are looking at them thinking you could see yourself datin them or something, then that would be when the problem comes in.
2006-11-22 11:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of girls who are the same way...TRUST ME. It just means you can appreciate the appeal of women. If you are in a relationship, introducing a girl would most likely make your guy happy and you can make it a rare thing. if you are single then find out just how curious you really are if you know what I mean. There isn't anything wrong with it but ALWAYS protect yourself. You are simply OPEN-MINDED
2006-11-22 11:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by ninalopez19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, no it doesn't mean you are gay or bi. It just means that you are expirencing different things. usually every girl goes through it, some don't until they are like 20 and some go through it when they are like 12. It is normal, you will grow out of it,....it does not mean you are gay, it just means you are expirementing, which is good.
good luck and i hope this helps
2006-11-22 11:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by vgplamondon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋