i have had this guy friend not a bf. we talked on the phone for 5 hours one nite. i told him alot of personal things and i thought i could really trust him. we became inseperable. he's one of those jocks and hangs out with the "popular croud." he told the "queen bee" everything. even that i liked him since 7th grade. he sends me emails saying that im nothing and that i don't matter to anyone. im sooo torn apart by this. im trying to work this out, but i cant. any advice?????
2006-11-22 02:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope you now realize this person is not your friend guy or otherwise. I wish you could poison his food or something!! He deserves pain or discomfort for what he has done for you. But, since this is reality, forget him, hold your head up because no one can judge you or judge what you've done EXCEPT YOU!! Don't let anyone have that power over you!! You do not answer to any person on earth for your actions, emotions, desires, pleasures, needs, wants, hurts, etc. Move on with your head held up high!!
2006-11-22 03:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. He sounds like a jerk and he doesn't apologize to you, stop being his friend. Becareful how you do it though, he might make gossip worse. Just gently start spreading away. Do stuff with your other friends rather than him and occasionally do stuff with him, but then break away. You will stop being his friend eventually but it will take time. When he calls tell him your busy if you really don't want to talk to him, tell him you're on your way out the door and you don't have time to talk now and that you'll call him back later(YEAH RIGHT!, DON't Call him back) It'll look like you drifted apart so you don't have a chance of him telling anymore of your secrets because he's mad.
2006-11-22 03:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Gi Gi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you bother wanting to work anything out with him. He is self centered, manipulative, and a loser. he loves himself more than anybody else. He befriended you just to hear how you feel about him and gloat to his friend. You deserve better than him. He has no charity and does not know how relate to another human being. trust me , you are better off without him. He is a total jerk.
2006-11-22 03:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i dont kno much about this but y did u trust him u kno moost of the people that are in the "popular group" tell each ohter everything i mean they talk about each ohter but just keep in mind what goes around comes around so he will get his and maybe make a new email address :)
dont get to upset over it i mean it is just high school.......
2006-11-22 03:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....sounds to me like even if this guy is pretending to be your friend he is not worth it! Anyone who seems trustworthy but then turns on you and tells you that you mean nothing is just a jerk. Move on sweetie, and find someone who will appreciate you for you.
2006-11-22 03:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tess O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up n tell his a$$ off! or get revenge in some way
2006-11-22 03:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lEAVE IT ALONE AND LEAVE HIM ALONE LET IT GO THE WORD IS OUT AND JUST DEAL WITH IT WHO CARES WHAT HE THINKS or if he accepts you
2006-11-22 03:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋