2006-11-22 02:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've meant his friends and family but does that really carry allot of weight, he doesn't take me anywhere he say's he is going through financial issues...
2006-11-22 03:04:30 · update #1
that actually happened to me. i found out that i was the other woman. listen for slips in his conversation of inclusive phrases about home life, when he uses we, us, etc... and you know he's not talking about you and him. when he always wants you to text him that you got home safe after a date, never call. i found out when he actually asked me to just let his cell ring twice and then hang up, to let him know that i got home safely.
i hope that's not happening to you. good luck!!
2006-11-22 02:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jade Poe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Does he stay out with you all night?
2. Does he spend time with you on holidays, his birthday, etc?
3. Do you spend time at his house. If so, do you spend the night.
4. Have you met his friends, or family?
If you answered no to at least 2 of these questions, you are more than likely the other woman
2006-11-22 10:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by arrizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in a similar situation. You have to go with your gut feeling. Expecting him to give you the answers will get you no where. He will tell you what you want to hear. File the information you already have and keep your eyes open. I would def keep him at an arms length though until you know the truth. But yo'll have to figure it out on your own.
2006-11-22 11:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by TORN BY MY HEART!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really know him ask him, men can't lie to us women unless we're blind. And I hope you can see the truth of it all, I mean if you feel something is going on then it probably is. But just to make sure something is going on try to investgate first. Don't be obvious and if you see something that says for sure he's a dog, don't blow off the handle just wait. Then when you have all the evindence you need leave his sorry behind. (Pay attention to his moods it will come out)
2006-11-22 11:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by D.S.C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not allowed to meet any of his family and possibly his friends. He always calls you or you can only call him at work. You're never invited over to his place. When he answers the phone, he doesn't say things like "babe/honey/sweety" or may not even call you by name. Is occassionally vague about where he is or what he's doing.
2006-11-22 10:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to really know is when you find out where he lives just drop in unannounced. That will shed the light on alot of things. Just tell him, you were in the neighborhood and your cell phone died or you would have called. Sounds good to me, right?
2006-11-22 10:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He disappears often....calls your out of nowhere...
Hides his phone....purposly...
Seems to be lost sometimes...
He has akward times where he acts very weird for no reason....
When you question him....he stutters OR gets really upset....
He hides otehr stuff from you, wallet, papers....
His friends don't know about you, or you don't know his friends
He has a histroy of cheating...
I'd appericate your points
Plus, if you think he's cheating don't waste your time.
2006-11-22 10:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by StyleDiva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know if he never wants to introduce you to his friends and family. If he never wants to take you to his house.
2006-11-22 10:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't allowed to stay overnight at his place.
2006-11-22 10:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instinct; you just feel it!
2006-11-22 10:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋