My girlfriend wants to try this?

Question

My girlfriend wants to try anal sex. I dont really care either way. I love her *** but the asshole isnt really much of a turn on for me you know? lol. Anyway, like I said, I dont really care either way. What's it like? What are the pro's and con's? I would like answer's from both male and female perspective please. Thank you :)

Answer 1

OUCH!
that is my personal pinion that I gathered from my experience. I used to live with my boyfriend, at the time, and we did it a couple of times. I had to be high or drunk for me to relax enough for it to even get in there. Now that I am married, I wanted to try it. It was a no go. My husband is a lot larger than my ex, so I am sure this is why. We used anal eaze and astro glide, but baby oil works best. I have heard that the womans orgasms can be mind blowing from this experience, but not for me. You must be very caring, and close in order to do this. Do not do it doggy style, instead, do it missionary style, with lots of lube. Again, it was painful, but it was worth the try. Now I know I'm not mising much. Be gentle, she can get a illness it she tears. NEVER put your penis into her anus and then into her vagina or mouth without washing. She could get very deathly ill.
Good luck and have fun!!!

Answer 2

I've done it once, and it was very odd. Although at the time I wasn't very comfortable with the man I was with. Depending on the circumstances, I'd probably try it again. The pro's seem to be that it's tighter for the man, and it's an intensive feeling for the woman, especially is she's stimulated elsewhere at the same time. The con's are quite apparent - there's a lot of other stuff that goes on in that area that's not related to sex at all. Also, if you have anal, you can't go back in the vagina until you've washed as it's not safe for the woman. Go ahead and explore - you might find you enjoy the sensations -- of course I can't answer for how it feels for the man. :)

Answer 3

I've tried it and I'm a girl. You really have to be in the mood and you need lots of lube. My husband said it was a great feeling for him because it is so tight and really got him off fast. It was fun but not something I want to do every day. The next day my butt was a little sore but I would do it again.

Answer 4

anal can include a finger too -

while you are finger ing her - and you feel she is getting really turned try teasing her anus with another finger and then slipping it - while maintaining the same rhythm you've generated - this might be jst enough to keep her happy.

actual anal sex is like f*ing a very tight hole (I guess you need a lot of lube) its often difficult to enjoy ejaculating (although I do enjoy the thouht of running my cck up and and down her crack.
and do find the idea of anal sex very exciting.

Answer 5

LOTS of lube, and start very slowly. Let her set the pace.

It's a snug fit , and like was said from a ladies point of view "not something for every day"

Rock on!

Answer 6

I never had that type of sex before. But some guys really like it, because its much more tighter...and if you think of the *** as being dirty, its not necessarly that....you should ask her to finger you bummhole , you might like it.

Answer 7

pro is for u might think it is a tighter spot
con is you could push it to far and she could get hurt


its not that bad of a thing it all depends on the two of you.

Answer 8

firstly, get plenty of lube in there... Secondly, get some info... I have a website that might be of use to you... But I usually end up getting my answers banned when I put it up...

Answer 9

Well, my ex and I enjoyed it... Your size is smaller after your first orgasm. So then it make it easier for her.

Answer 10

It can be different and fun. Why not try it once and satisfy your curiosities?