1 and a half year relationship with a woman and still doubts:Is this what I want?do I really find her beautiful??Maybe there's someone else out there! - all these things hitting my head day after day...And I know she's a wonderful person!I've had heartbreaks for the past 20 years!!!Suffered with all that and now I find someone who seems to love me...What the hell do I want?
2006-11-22 02:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by jokersmile 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can truly answer that question, not a bunch of strangers giving you their opinions. If your afraid of another heartbreak, I hate to be the bearer of bad news but this will continue throughout your lifetime. Having a woman that loves you unconditionally is one of lives blessings and as such you should be very grateful. However, if you do not have this same emotional attachment to this girl then you need to sit down and talk honestly with her and discuss your fears and feelings. Best of luck to you and her.
2006-11-22 02:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what you want but it sounds like the most important thing on your list is to wind up with the most beautiful women you can get. Doesn't that sound like your priorities are off ?? Is that really what is most important ?? You just said she's a wonderful person. Shouldn't that be the most important matter ? You probably suffered for 20 yrs because as you can see you dont have your priorities set up right. Your always looking to see if the grass is greener rather than making the most of what you already have. Typical man.
2006-11-22 10:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still having doubts after a year and a half , then why are you still with her?? Why do that to her? If you are still having doubts then I suggest breaking it off because it will do nothing but hurt the both of you more if you stay together.
2006-11-22 10:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doubting your relationship like this everyday, then it doesn't seem like you want to be in it. Maybe you should take some time to be by yourself.
2006-11-22 10:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be alone for the rest of your life, and yet your not man enough to face to fact that your companion now isn't your true hearts desire.
It sucks being alone. Fully commit or move on. Don't string her or yourself along, cause neither one of you deserve that!
2006-11-22 10:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how i see it, but i could be wrong! you want her, but your just doubting yourself and trying to use other women or whatever as a way of sabotaging a good relationship. try and see her like you just met her.
2006-11-22 10:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by sleepyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb ur just afraid of commitment? cause that is like the next step... and alot of men are... not much u can do bout that tho... Good luck
2006-11-22 10:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋