He's acting strange. I don't know why...?

Question

I was sick Sunday night, my bf drove me around till i felt well enough to go home, I couldn't walk or open my eyes. Well, Monday I went to his house, he asked me to come over. Things were fine when I got there. We left and went to one of his friends houses for a little while. When we left and went back to his house, he started acting strange. He would just sit there and stare off into space, I asked him if he was ok, he said he was. Then yesterday he didn't call me or anything. He told me to call him when I got outta class through a text, I did, he never called me back. I asked him this morning through a text if we were ok, he said we were then asked me why wouldn't we be, I said I was just wondering. He said he was just busy. He use to call me everymorning on my way to work, now he doesn't, he use to call me everynight before I went to bed, now I'm lucky to get a "Night" in a text. Should I just move on?

We are both in our 20's. We have known each other for years since elementary school. He introduces me to people as the girl of his dreams. And we have had serious talks about our future together.

Answer 1

Yea I think you should, I don't know how old you are, but it seems that he might not be ready for a commitment. and if you ask a question if you should just move on, you most likely should. good luck

Answer 2

Angel lets worry about your health first. Hope you're feeling better but find out why you felt so sick. Could be he's just busy (text messages) could be 'anything' not that he wants to break up. I would try to find something to do alone or with friends to cheer me up and then text him a hello, ask him if he wants to go to a movie or bowling (something fun you can do together) stay off the heavy talk with this date, he may just be feeling he needs some space. But if he doesn't join you for a good reason, then he may be giving you the cold shoulder to break up which is cowards way. But give him the change to talk, have yous ever had to talk about something serious before, sometimes its hard the first time. You're so open about 'where you're at' that you deserve someone fun who will be there for you, and whom you feel secure dating. You should not always have to wonder what he's doing, goes for guys too, try to be open. Good luck and my advice is find something you like to do too apart from him so you can have some fun on your own, for the times you are dating people and the times you are not.

Answer 3

There's no right or wrong answer to your question. Since we are just second guessing what is going in that head of your bf. He probably have too much on his mind. But as a man myself. You ought to know that we are famous or perhaps infamous for not being able to express ourselves. When we have problems, we (most of us)normally keep it to ourselves. I personally find it very exhausting to share my thoughts with someone else. So I too, sometime just sit there and stare blankly at the walls. It's not that I'm incapable of asking for help or opinion, I will but in my own time and on my own volition. The worse that a woman can do is push and push me to share my thoughts. I'd find it very tiresome and I would just switch off or turned off by it. Have you ever gone fishing? Learn to pull, let go and pull again. You should let him feel that you're there and he can count on you but you're not stifling him. Men are babies actually. We bleed too. We have strength but we need to be assured sometime but we don't like to be cornered or loved too much. Confusing yah. We find women to be confusing too. So what's new?

Answer 4

It's possible that was/has been busy. Maybe he has something on his mind but isn't quite ready to discuss it. Give him time, if after a few weeks and you still feel the same way, talk to him about it and move on. But I really think you are turning this "small thing" into a huge deal.

Answer 5

How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart

I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.

Answer 6

That does sound alittle strange especially for him to start acting like that after you were sick. Maybe he is really busy or stressed out right now . . I know when my fiance is stressed out over things that he acts different. I wouldn't let it get me down though, ok? However, if he keeps acting that way, I'd put my foot down and ask what's his problem. Good luck and Happy Thanksgiving!

Answer 7

it seems like you both need to talk not a text but in person and let him know how you feel either his just too comfortable in the relationship or he is bored and you need to remind him, that happen to me and i just never call him back he calls me all the time now but is too late he wasnt giving me what i felt like i deserved so i move on i do love him and always will but is hard to teach and old dog new tricks

Answer 8

Yup. It's over. We hate sticking it out for Xmas gifts.

Answer 9

he might be feeling crowded with the relationship just give him a little time to decompress and he will be back to normal. trust me he is probally overwhelmed or something

Answer 10

you shouldnt move on...give it time...maybe he is going thru a hard time or sumthin...just give him some space for a while...let him know u r there 4 him