i have a friend and i have known him for a year but i realised recently that i like him as more than a friend. i tried to get his opinon by telling him that there is this guy i like and i wanted to tell him and he told me not to make the first move. i could no longer keep it to myself and told him and he said nothing really and never really spoke to me again about it he moved like he was trying to avoid it. i decided at that point to end the freindship cause i thought that he could not deal with it and this made him mad. I apologised for my actions and we seemed to be ok again.Thing is that there were times when he would hug me but on one occasion he kissed me on my neck when he hugged me and i was taken back off course this was before i told him but now he is politle but he avoids me like the plague he is always to busy to see me and he make me feel weird. I wonder did i scare him away, did he ever really like me or was it all in my head and i wonder now if i should consider it dead.
2006-11-22 02:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by ChocolateDiva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, ask yourself if you want to be with a man that can't take a compliment such as what you gave him by telling him that you have feelings for him. If he can't be truthful to you and tell you thanks but no thanks and continue to be friends or he going to just avoid the whole thing. Sista girl kiss that dead weight good bye.
2006-11-22 02:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by haywardn32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in the same situation... well almost... i never told him... still like him... and will never tell him ... 4 fear of this very same thing happening... the thing is he is not offended or anything like that... from what i know he is worried that if he does anything with u or speaks 2 u too much you will take it as a sign that he also feels the same way which i think he is clearly expresseing that he in fact does not... and i no thats gotta suck but what u need to do is make him think u hav a new boyfriend or even like sum otha guy and then he should b ok again because he will not feel that he needs to b careful as to not lead u on... hope this helps! God bless!
2006-11-22 02:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.
2006-11-22 02:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy i confused....You shouldn't bother thinkning about it. Because you were honest and made your feelings present to him and he did not respond to them. So why should you play around with his mix signals? Go on to the next guy...avoid feeling this way towards him, if he wants friends cool....don't stress yourself out
2006-11-22 02:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by StyleDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you Ive had a couple friends like this, but it has been my experiance that I didnt like the girl like that, i just liked to hang out with them... so yeah you should probably drop it... Sorry :(
2006-11-22 02:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you shouldn't care about him anymore! he simply doesn't like you! or i don't know...this is really difficult and it happens all the time....just try to forget him and i know it is difficult but i think you should just find another guy!! and then maybe he will understand what he lost!!
2006-11-22 02:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie there will be other guys!!! He sounds like an @ss!!!
2006-11-22 02:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you offend him anyway. Than try to ask again how he feels.
2006-11-22 02:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋