is this fair ?,and even if it is...for who?

Question

i had a gf she was my best friend since forever
then we got together for 4 years
n suddenly for a lame reason she broke up wit me
in a very nasty way
that i even didn' want to make up wit her
so in a week she hooked up wit the best friend of her ex (the 1 b4)
soon she found out she was pregnant
she dumped the other guy
n came to me sayin i am her one true love
n want me bk
actually i dont want to
but didnt want to let her down
eventually she was my best friend
so i told her i will be there for u as a best friend
soon she wasnt satisfied and wanted more
n as i didnt want to and wasnt ready so i told her again thats
not goin to happen at least for now
so i had to take a time off n take a side
she kept sayin i am a play boy n not good as i think
but yet she loves me ( c wat she's doin )
and even if i got back to her
its not going to be fair
is it fair? and if it is for who?
PS: the guy she hooked wit dun want to leave her n tryin
to make things right n tryin to be responsible

another thing the baby isn't mine and i am so positive about it and so is she its the other's guy baby

Answer 1

I would tell her that its not going to work as a couple, she messed that up. Just be friends. She's pregnant now, and don't do anything that you do not want to do. You're not being fair to yourself if you go back with her. You don't want to waste another four years just because you feel as if you're going to let her down. What if she does the exact same thing in the future.

Answer 2

How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart

I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.

Answer 3

If the baby is yours, you need to take responsibility and if it isn't you don't need more crap from this girl. It isn't fair for you that she treated you this way. No one deserves to be treated like garbage and the treated nice when she needs money, jewelry, etc. You deserve better. But if they baby is yours you definitely need to stay in the baby's life. Every kid needs a good father.