Im 18 years old my boyfriend is also 18, im dieing to sleep wid him but im so scared ive known him for 8 years and now were 2getha (at last). I just don't now how to start it all of, ive neva been this sy b4 but i am with him what can i do to start it al of.
2006-11-22 02:17:47 · 28 answers · asked by xxxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get his old boy out and give it a little noshing !! i think he will get the hint !
2006-11-22 02:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am way past being a "girl" but around long enough to have common sense. Firstly, I hope you have looked into various contraception methods. You need to tell your boyfriend that nothing will happen on the sex front until you have discussed what is safest for you both. You may find he is just as anxious to take your relationship further but did not know how to approach you on the subject. I appreciate that this doesn't seem to be a very romantic start, but better start with just the two of you working things out than turn it into three at your very young ages. You need to go somewhere quiet for the weekend, get to know each others foibles and take it slowly. You have waited 8 years for him to decide he quite fancies you, it wont hurt him to wait a few more months to be sure this is what you want. He may decide that you are not what he wants after all. He is very young and women are the mental/mature equivalent of 3/4 years older than a man of the same age. Don't rush it and don't push it and do let him think it was all his idea. If you decide that this relationship isn't quite what you were expecting and are disappointed, let him go before you get into a rut and stay with him for the sake of it. There are dozens of fresh fish out there and you have a whole lifetime to find someone who suits you better. Good luck, have a nice life.
2006-11-22 02:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Joanne E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing, kissing leads to a rise in heart rate and really get men goin! LOL!.... but make sure he is ready 1st, most guys are too quick to jump in the sack, but some arent, he might be that type of guy who isnt, or else he would have brought up the subject already. talk about it, make sure u both are ready! cuz if u arent and u do it, it could ruin ur relationship/friendship tremendously! so just let it happen naturally! 1 thing will lead to another when the time is right.
my motto is, dont have sex until ur ready for the responsablitily of having kids! that is the 1 mistake couples make, they have sex and when they get preg they are scared and nervous and not reasy for kids, ive been down that road before and its scarey! so make sure u sue the right protection or dont do it at all!
2006-11-22 02:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by !*FeDuP*! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait for him to show signs of being ready as well... if theyre deffinately there (which im usre they will be) relax, calm down completely, and start it all with a kiss but dont go further than feels right in that moment!!!! if it doesnt feel right to move on further dont rush it.................. when the time is perfect you will know and you will go for it without any advice because no one can tell anyone what to do as it is such an intimate thing with one person and intamate happens in very very different ways!!!! go with how u feel
2006-11-22 03:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is nervous to, i would give it time and just let it happen. Its better that way, its more passionate. If you are meant to be together this man wont wait long and if he does it shows the respect he has for you. Get to know each other in this intimate relationship... Walk it threw....
2006-11-22 02:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by crlynn2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then wait! If it's your first time you don't want to rush anything. If it's not then wait anyways. Wait until you don't feel pressured by yourself and the act is impulsive. Unless you have a good time the first time you wont want to try it again. Anyways...your 18! ...just be safe whatever you decide to do.
2006-11-22 02:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bec 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing whilst you're lying on a bed and start to taking your top off and see what happens from there?? Good luck x
2006-11-22 02:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by sparkling Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things, but try a romantic evening with a special meal and a nice bottle of champers or wine and see how things go.
2006-11-22 02:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by Disgruntled Biscuit 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself sum dutch courage...maybe go 4 a meal one night and go back to his or urs and just relax, u will do what comes naturally..x
2006-11-22 02:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both Virgins take it slow, don't rush things you have all the time in the world. You don't want to regret things
2006-11-22 02:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by Prudence22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there really is nothing I can do to stop you, but don't have sex until your married. What if you get pregnant or somthing go's wrong? Then what? My advice is don't do it. I'm sorry, but the bible says sex befor marraige is wrong. And it is wrong! For you and your boyfriends sake, don't do it.
2006-11-22 02:31:05 · answer #11 · answered by Hannah 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋