I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs now and we live together..his best friends that is like his brother has a new girlfriend and wants to split them up and she is also very jealous of me since they started going out, i never got along with her but now she told everyone that i cheated on my man i really didnt, he believed it, everyone did and i dont know how to prove that i didnt..has anyone here been in a situation like this i dont know what to do... = (
2006-11-22 02:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by Gabs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she'll do anything to get what she wants
2006-11-22 02:03:54 · update #1
i tried talking to him but just doesnt listen to me, he believed it, i already told him million times that i did not cheat on him
2006-11-22 02:09:34 · update #2
If your boyfriend doesn't believe you then he never trusted you in the begin with. A true relationship should be built on trust, if you don't have that then there is no relationship. My suggestion is to move on, I know it hurts but if he really cared about you then he wouldn't even second guess himself on believing that crap. You know that you didnt' do it and thats all that matters. Move on hunny you can find better!
2006-11-22 02:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuchi, it's rather unfortunate that the guy you call your bf doesn't trust you enough to vouch for you in a difficult situation like this. Since the foundation of any relationship is LOVE errected on TRUST, I believe you should have a rethink about your relationship with him cos he'll deny you over and over again as you proceed in your relationship. If you don't want to give yourself heart-attacks frequently, then bid him farewell. This may sound as a painful option, but I think it's the best for you. Contact me through my profile for further discussions. cya.
2006-11-22 02:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is another kind of trust situation that happens when 2 people just shack up instead of making commitment. Maybe you should just sit down with bf and calmly explain that it's not true, that you don't know why anyone would spread that rumor.
Good Luck
2006-11-22 02:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man doesn't believe you, you have to move on... Rumors spread and there is NOTHING you can do, but hold your head high and be positive. Meet someone new but not in your school or work or wherever the rumor has spread. Be up front with the new guy and tell him what jerks people have been.
2006-11-22 02:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be true to yourself.
Tell your boyfriend the whole story as you told us.
Tell him that he either trusts you and believes you or he trusts and believes a women that he doesn't know.
2006-11-22 02:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if your man believed some girl over you, then you don't have to do anything. You're more important then them, and he sould have trusted you.
If he believes the others, leave it at that, and find new friends.
2006-11-22 02:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to your bf and say hey, "I am your girl fried why would you believe her over me I am your girl friend she is just trying to break us up"! Good luck to you!
2006-11-22 02:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by D.J.4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! thats terrible. you should go up to her slap her with a cold fish because she'll feel too stupid to hit you back! Honestly B***h slap her
2006-11-22 02:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by psychochicka14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick the biotch in the box pull her hair then kick her in the box again
2006-11-22 02:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the person she accused you of cheating with tell him the truth.
2006-11-22 02:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋