would you settle for someone that you liked but were crazy about someone else who just came out of a relationship and wasn't ready to get into another at the moment. should i settle for the guy who i like but don't love, he loves me and treats me well. should i settle.
2006-11-22 02:02:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow what ur heart is telling you.... u dont need to ask anyone else for an answer... its already inside u!
U will never be totally happy with 2nd best if ur heart is with sum1 else! It isnt fair on u and it isnt fair on the guy. This guy u really love will ALWAYS be in the back of your mind, and if u settle with (2nd best bloke) cracks and barriers will occur in your relationship causing no end ov problems!!
So no girl, dont do it.... if its true love.... its worth waiting for as it is the best feeling in the world! U cant rush things like this, however hard it seems, try and be patient!
Good luck babe. xxxx
2006-11-22 02:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one! I wouldn't settle for second best under any circumstances! I think that if your in a relationship then it should be because you want to be with that person, not because the other bloke didn't want you just yet.
I would stick around with the first guy, be his friend and be supportive because chances are that if he is not ready for another relationship he will still be pretty messed up. Eventually he will be ready to start dating again but you need to make sure that you dont rush him because that could just make him push you further away.
I hope this helps, but really you need to decide what makes you happy, people can give you all their opinions but you need to stay true to yourself and make you your number one priority! You don't have to be with a man to be happy! xx
all the best, I hope it works out! xx
2006-11-22 02:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by SARA H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say settle. It sounds to me like this other guy would be settling for you as its got nothing to do with just coming out of a relationship, I'm sure if he met a woman who he really wanted to be with, he wouldn't hesitate. This other guy who treats you right and genuinely likes you sounds like the right guy to me. I hope you see it before he gives up on you !!
All the best !!
2006-11-22 02:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with him why shouldn't you settle with him. If you have serious doubts don't waste his or, more importantly, your time. If you don't think he's right but are staying with him rather than being on your own are you being true to yourself and kind to him? Passion can grow. If you get on well and you're very keen on him you need to think about how you would feel if you were still with him in 30 years time. If you are always going to look to see if there is someone better around you might need to move on. A very difficult decision to make - I hope you make the one that's right for you - good luck.
2006-11-22 02:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes too short to settle for anything/anyone!!!!! Not fair on the guy you like. Wouldnt go for the guy your crazy about either, as its a rebound situation for him and you'll prob get hurt in the end! As he might get back with his ex!
2006-11-22 02:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hello dear
awk i have asked myself this before, it was a tough one.
i had the handsome guy, was supper sweet, and i liked him yea.
but then there was this guy, he made me laugh, and i had a total crush on him for ages but he was going with someone. i always told myself it would b better with him, that he would understand me, if he knew what i was like in a relationship, and we would never part.
but then i woke up, when i broke a guys heart, found myself being heartbroken cuz the guy wasn't what i expected, i had a crush on him because he was something i couldnt get.
( the old saying you want what you can't get)
or (want get, get want)
it's simple tho, your goina do it anyway, theres no point in me tellin ya not to. we always go for the one's where it'll b exciting and that sometimes aren't as nice to us and may not respect us, but we do it anyway, cuz we get bored =).
lifes a journey, i've givin in, im goina live it.
and make sure ur wise but always never let a guy change you into something else.
you'll b fine hunni
go with ur heart and ur head =)
luv
X_mary_X
2006-11-22 02:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should every woman be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl for myself as well
2006-11-22 02:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No!!! just settle with being on your own for a bit you might enjoy it!
2006-11-22 02:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!! Life is to short to settle. Good luck!!
2006-11-22 02:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by ~Heather~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever settle for second best, wait for your true love. you will only make yourself unhappy, and the bloke you dont love.men dont take long to get over a woman unlike us gettin over men. wait for him, if you love him he must be worth it.
2006-11-22 02:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by lamyarhull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋