ok so heres the thing...i am going out w/ a guy. i like him but hes really clingy....like calls all the time....and like is kinda annoying and immature it bugs me but i do like him....wut do i do? (oh yea and when he called once he asked is ---- there..his ex! not me!)
2006-11-22 01:59:39 · 11 answers · asked by Kaylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you been going out? You can have love for someone, but not be in love with them. Neither is a reason to stay. Just do what makes you happy. You can't change people. So you either love him enough to over look his flaws, or you don't- in which case you will always be annoyed with him. How would you feel if someone was always annoyed with you?
2006-11-22 02:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute u like him
how long have u been with him?? now if u only been with him a short amount of time then he s overdoing it but u like
why is it annoying, he is not calling u to complain or annoy u
he wants to talk
i thought girls love that there man is thinking about that
my x gf used to bit ch to me about me not callin her enough
u should be happy he s calling u
us men dont like to call too much
u know what it could be u may not be too into him or he s making himself to available for u
but in the long run u guys wont be together probably cuz of u and u will regret all of this
good luck
2006-11-22 02:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the "ex" call was probably a freudian slip; don't look to much into it unless it continues.
Second, just tell him that you need a little space; let him know that you really love the time you spend together, but that you are afraid that TOO much time might sour things. If he's mature enough, he'll understand.
2006-11-22 02:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you're not putting out as often as you should so your sub consciously driving your boyfriend away from you and towards his ex-girlfriend. Give him a little more TLC in the bedroom, and ask him to be a little less clingy outside.
Next!
2006-11-22 02:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by davidlhennessey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like clingy clingy guy but sometimes it ok to have but i would just talk to him n tell him that u need a lil space and maybe he just said his ex's name just cuz he forgot or something ha
good luck
2006-11-22 02:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with him and just tell him that his clingyness bothers you. It may just be the way he is and may not be able to be changed, if this is the case, I suggest finding a new man. As for him calling you by her name, don't worry, slip ups happen, if it happens again, then, I'd be worried. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-22 02:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this guy is right for you, if he called you and asked for his ex then hes got someone else on his mind, hes probably being so clingly because hes cheating on you, he wants to know you every step to ensure you dont find out what hes doing behind your back.....but that just my opinion
2006-11-22 02:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the boy, be straight with him. don't be nice and shut up, you'll regret it later on trust me. I'm a guy and i love it when a girl is serious with me and has the guts to tell me exactly what she likes about me and the stuff that pisses her off.
that stuff helps me be a better person.
don't be shy about it. really.
P.S he needs to grow up!
2006-11-22 02:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by swjbravo007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, like, maybe you should, like, not go out anymore, ya know? If he can't, like, get yer name right, but still calls all de time, then it's time, ya know, to hit the road.
2006-11-22 02:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by TyrusB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him knock off the things you dont like. maybe he doesnt know how to treat you the way you wanted to be treated.the wrong name thing showes he is immature. dont worrl about it.
2006-11-22 02:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by robert c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋