help me with my parents please?

Question

my parents are always fighting, they both mada a promess that they would stop fighting, but they still are. still fighting. i am crying right now. help me please.

Answer 1

You should sit your parents down and let them know that having to hear them fight so much hurts you. By making them aware that they are hurting you it may help get them to stop fighting so much. Hang in there.

Answer 2

I'm sorry about what your going through. There's pretty much nothing you can do, its up to them. If they still love each they can try to make the effort to change, but sometimes when you have been fighting with your partner all the time love fades away and sometimes they are just use to being together but not in love. I know its hard but sometimes its either best for them to give themselves some time off or go there separate ways. Marriage counseling won't work if theres no love. I know its hard for you but remember no matter what they decide in the future you know they will always be there for you and love you. If they continue fighting they may later get abusive with each other, and I would hate for you to see that.

Answer 3

Well it seems like they are not interested in listening to you.

i say you make them listen.

First talk to them about it seriously.
If they dont seem to take it seriously,
Do something more desperate like the video thing the lady told
Even then if they seem not to affected by it,
Try something outrageous like threatening them by leaving a note in mom's bag or dad's shirt pocket saying that if they continue this furthur you will set out for a more peaceful place anywhere else on this planet before they will know it. You will get them there. But DO NOT EVER EVEN IN YOUR WILDEST IMAGINATIONS REALLY END UP DOING WHAT I JUST SAID...OKAY?
The world out there is really bad and you are better of with your quarrelling dad n mom than being out there. So dont even think of doing anything more than threatening them.

Answer 4

honey, it is really hard on a kid with their parents fighting trust me i grew up in a house like that. But unfortunatly there is nothing you can do about it except go to a friends house for a while. If you can get away just till the storm blows over. Eventually it has to get better.

Answer 5

Well, you may not be able to get a chance to sit them down and talk with them about how it is affecting you. I had to deal with fighting parents when I was young...I realized that some things are better left for the parents to deal with...We had to seek the help of their very good friends whom they loved and respected. My dad eventually stopped drinking, and took a while for my mum to calm off with her angry disposition but she did when her pastor soke with her..if they can't involve anyone else in their lives to help them out..do that..Get someone they respect alot and tell them about it and get them to help out..especially your mum. Usually when the woman is more responsive and calm..the hubby follows suit.

Or you could do a video on their fighting and show it to them one day when they are all happy and bubbly..tell them how it is affecting you guys.

Sorry that you are in this situation.

Answer 6

Just remember -- even if they are fighting, they still love you.

They might get upset with each other and get in a bad mood, but they still love you.

Try to tell them both how much it upsets you to see them fight. Try to tell both of them at the same time.

Answer 7

Hey relax dear, Talk to them about how you badly feel wen they fight. and try to talk with them individualy about how they want the other person to be. Even i faced the same problem. It will be alright in course of time. So don cry.

Answer 8

I think that you should sit them down and tell them how you feel and they keep breaking there promise to you that they wont fight and they are just let everything out and ask them to try to work things out.

Answer 9

TALK TO YOUR PARENTS AND TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL. ARRANGE FOR A FAMILY MEETING WITH THE THREE OF YOU AND TELL THEM