I have a crush on this girl and I've never been with a girl before, but I am very curious. Although, she hasnt showed me any signs that she is lesbian but she had a bf and broke up with him after 2 days. And she takes pictures with boy jeans, dressing a bit tomboy. I don't know if she would ever try to experience something with me. Can any one give me tips?
2006-11-22 00:28:27 · 15 answers · asked by Rizeel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 16 yrs old
2006-11-22 00:35:57 · update #1
I am 16 yrs old
2006-11-22 00:35:59 · update #2
Well, you gotta get her 'drunk and in the mood' here.. lol.. but seriously.. How old are we talkin' here? I'm guessing late teens..? Somebody else is gonna tell you this I am sure but it is NOT all that uncommon to get admire another girlfriend.. If you fantasize about kissing her and that's all, I wouldn't mark you as a 'lesbian' honey.. I wouldn't think she was a les. from the tomboy dress... BUT.. well, one never knows. (She might be and you are not.. wouldn't that surprise you? lol) IF you think about sexual things, her parts ..UR more likely to into les'bsm. (Sorry to spell it out here.. I'm 53 and I've been around w/both.) Let me see.. if you are are real hell bent on finding out one thing is NOT to ask her.. Jesus.. don't say 'want to get it on?' or something like that or ask her questions about 'her attittude about being gay' (tho that second question is better than the first) cause that'd turn her off and she'll rat YOU out in a second to everybody for being 'a queer.' (I know.. happened to me.) I guess catch one another in a 'loose moment..' listening to some tunes, I don't know.. watching t.v. Find a 'funny moment' in a commercial (God do I hate watching t.v.) and like laff and 'hug her' and let it linger a split second.. dont' be TOO obvious tho.. IF she is thinking the same thing, she'll react, like touch your arm.. take it from there.. Just one split second of hesitation in a random act (punch her, then rub her arm, hell I don't know..) is all you need if the feeling is mutual. (Same works for guys too, by the way.. BUT you can be more obvious there in a sanctioned relationship... giggling, 'eye contact' etc.) hope U can make sense out of all this malarky.. I AM trying to help.. lmao.. peace
2006-11-22 00:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously haven't met me and my girlfriend ;) I think you're just focusing on butch lesbians who aren't described or thought of as pretty - and you aren't branching out and thinking that the pretty girl walking next to you on the street could be gay. Get outside of that lesbian butch box and realize that ANYONE can be gay. I the road to finding your life partner is difficult for everyone. I mean, sure, people find them sooner in life and then some later so the time is different, but the road is the same in my opinion. One day, out of the blue, someone will come up and you'll feel it. You'll know. You can never be sure of when. I met my girlfriend (I can't stand the word partner) through my former roommate who actually had a crush on her first. She had long brown hair, brown eyes, tanned skin, great arms and a butt on her. It was everything I was looking for physically and when I looked into her eyes it was everything I was looking for emotionally. I had a girlfriend at the time who I wasn't so into and about two weeks later I went after the girl I knew I should be with. It's been a year now and my decision was the best one of my life so far! Good luck on your search. Patience is key.
2016-05-22 14:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dress like a tomboy and to be a lesbian are two different things. If you wanna take a chance and ask her out, then be ready for her rejection, if she accepts then go from there. Good luck.
2006-11-22 00:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Fiesty Redhead 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hit on her and find out. Get real close and friendly, then pretend you touch her by accident. Then start telling her how soft and attractive her skin feels. If she still does not mind, then continue.....
2006-11-22 00:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come your crush doesn't locate any guy around you? Maybe you need to redirect your crush. As soon as you do that, you may contact me through my profile. cya.
2006-11-22 00:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just like any other relationship advice. You have to risk rejection.
2006-11-22 00:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you both? It have an effect on what advice I would give.
2006-11-22 00:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by How many questions can there be? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not be lesbian but she may be bi curious --- talk to her --- feel her out verbally see if she may be interested and go from there
2006-11-22 00:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me at aldermanf2@yahoo.com so we can talk about this little problem.
2006-11-22 00:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it and see what she says it cant hurt
2006-11-22 00:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋