i met someone a month ago. we share the same ideas, concepts, thoughts, beliefs and interests. we are in love and want to go for a long term realtionship.
but the only thing we do not match with is sex. and this is going to ruien everything we were trying to build.
how can we both get over this ?
2006-11-21 23:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
practise normally makes perfect.Dont put yourself under pressure by thinking that the earth should move every time .Once you have got to know what each other like and dislike you will feel comfortable and be able to relax and enjoy.
2006-11-22 00:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by knowsitallandabitmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be reserved for reproduction purposes only. I'm not going to sit here and say I don't enjoy it, but if I came across someone whom I believed to be my soul-mate then sex would not play a big role in our relationship unless she wants it to be. Also, when I do find my soul mate or even someone I can begin a long-term relationship with it's going to be her and the relationship itself that fulfills me ultimately and intimately.
2006-11-22 08:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by U know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't. if sex is ok it is 10% of relationships. if sex is not ok it is 90% of relationships. so soon u both will get tired of compromising in sex. have a nice jorney
yea, and a previous one gave u really "brilliant" suggestion - to start cheating even before u get married. how dumb that advice can be. u might start cheating like maybe after 10 years of marriage, not after u knew each other for a month!
2006-11-22 08:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a keeper except for sex right? Well, just find someone else for sex, just don't be stupid and get caught. Girls are really good at finding things out so you gotta be sneakier than them. Good luck, find a ho that will keep her mouth shut while you have your girlfriend for other needs.
2006-11-22 08:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two are not sexually compatable then it isn't meant to be. I am sorry to say that but sex is part of a relationship and if you want your relationship to work then all of it has to work.
2006-11-22 08:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by raemom05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get on so well discuss the problem and try to find solutions --- there is always something you can do
2006-11-22 08:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details, please. Do you mean you're the same gender? Or do you mean you have different ideas on how to enjoy sex??
2006-11-22 07:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Momma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋