Why do guys love b*tchy girls? (guys only plz)?

Question

When I'm not really interested in a guy I don't try to save their feelings and be little miss nice girl, I just treat them like I would a brother or good friend. So I make fun of them, and they make fun of me, we laugh about stupid stuff, and I yell at them and fight with them about winning video games etc.. all in good fun of course. And I ask them to do stuff for me (kinda bossy), to help me move, and guy-needed tasks like that.

And I basically am kinda mean to them and they love it! They always end up liking me but I never like them back, and then theyre mad because they thought I did.

When a girl is jokingly b*tchy to you why do you like it (if you do)? Because I do not get it at all.

Hey! I do not lead these guys on, and like I said I take everything as well as I dish it, so if I make fun of a guy I can take it when he does the same to me.

thanks for all the great answers.

to answer your question vampirin, how I would tell a guy I like him... I guess I would just say things like I really have fun with you, and your so sweet, and try to make it super obvious. And I would like always try to be around you, like sit next to you and just see how you would respond. I would want you to grab my hand and hold it, and after you make that first move, then I wold feel comfortable to make the next ones.

Answer 1

Honestly, a lot of men
are into the "challenge"
of winning over a girl
who, for the most part,
hates his guts. It's like
a game; or a conquest.
These men are known as

***D*CKS.***

Answer 2

Guys dont like Bitchie girls. But the fact that you are "playfully' being "Bitchie" gives the wrong impression of yourself, leading him to believe that you might like him, as you know by now. The guy knows you're joking, and sees the laughter and time spent with him etc., as a "signal" or "signals." Spending time with a guy is a good way to eventually "like" or "fall" for a girl because you are in fact showing interest for him. So you shouldn't always be jokingly bitchie. Maybe you should not spend as much time with the guy either.Treating a guy like a good friend or a brother actually makes the guy like you because he eventually gets to know you a lot better and may just really enjoy your company and personality. By the same token however, when a girl treats a guy like a brother, he subconsciously knows that the girl just sees him as a friend; but hopes that is not the case being we guys have this perception that women are just so complicated because half the time, if not most, we are not sure of the woman's feeling towards us. For a good reason though; sometimes the girl seems to be interested because she's enthused to talk and sometimes not so interested because she barely talks. While treating him like a brother or a good friend, what you really have to do on top of that is be honest from the beginning, let him know directly or indirectly that you are only interested in a friendship. There is nothing wrong wit telling him "I really like you as friend." Or " I can't see you as more than a friend." It's better, otherwise as time passes the guy will create high expectations. So now the question is for you...how do I know for sure that a girl really likes me? What would you do to let him know?in other words how would you let the guy know? ;)

Answer 3

The same reason girls like bad boys. It just makes things a little more fun and interesting. Besides, nobody wants to be with the one that's easy to get. We all want the one we can't have. But just wait until you find one who can dish it out as good as you can.

Answer 4

A bitchy girl is not the way to go in my opinion, they rend to be self centered. Guys like a girl who will stand up for herself and joke around with them. Take the brunt of the joke as well as give it. But for the most part, a Lady is worth having more than the bitchy girl.

Answer 5

Well, it comes down to three ugly reasons,
1) Chivalry is not really dead
2) Men are submissive folk discreetly seeking out women to play dominatrix roles
3) Perhaps the precursor to 2) , all men relate their mother to their prospective partners(or rather if you'll have- attractions)
so being bossed around is second nature- the Oedipus complex (was Freud right or what???)

Some guys have the potential to overcome these some of these factors(if all could be overcome, all women would be sex slaves)
, I'm guessing you'll bump into one soon

Answer 6

I don't like it at all, and I'm betting that most don't. Maybe they're holding out hope that your manner indicates that your feelings will change.

You sound super manipulative. If you're not into these guys, be straight up about it. If they're not even friend material, don't keep them on the hook.

Treat them as human beings with feelings, who exist outside your convenience.

In short, grow up.

Answer 7

Simple, there are no beautiful girls like you who are willing to fool around, or tell jokes, or have a good time with guys. What happens is that a guy loves a girl who has your qualities. We want to hang out with these kind of girls, no those who are just talking about American Idol, or the OC. And of course, opposite sex attacts eachother. So there you go, they like you because you are a nice, easy going, friendly cute girl. Who would not want some one like you as a girlfriend?

Answer 8

bec we guys think about sex hundered times a day so when we have the chance to have sex we suddenly pretend loving and make love as the cure of the sex need
it is wrong from guys to do so but also it is wrong from you not to have limits with guys
do not joke with lions they might be cruel

Answer 9

i don't know about others but the vixen appeal in a girl is what i look for.A girl who is cool,sexy,outgoing & smart.I don't like those emotional type of girls who start crying when you propose them.Its just awful to talk with them.

Answer 10

Bitchy girls are good in bed, besides when you dump a bitchy girl, you don't really have to feel bad. Nice girls, well you feel obligated to be with them after you treat her like a ho.