met this guy the other day. actually on friday, went for a drink on sunday and he wanted to see me on monday but i said no, asked me out yesterday i still said no. today he hasnt called or even textd me.
shud i get worried.?
2006-11-21 23:53:15 · 13 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK ,why are you worried? Even though some men like a challenge be careful not all of them like the chase make yourself available like the guy said .You seem to like this guy if your worried so just give it chance .
2006-11-21 23:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u liked the guy, why turn him down repeatedly? Ur not playing hard to get R U? Pick up the ph & call him... ask him to meet u for coffee or a movie. Yeah, since u were turning down date after date... u had an opportunity to reschedule when he made the invitations. Unless u don't care but then why would u be upset he hasn't call...
Tip: if u like someone... don't send the wrong signals he's not a magician... can't read ur mind. Be open, honest if u have already other plans but right then schedule another date!
2006-11-22 08:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look why should he call? Both times he tried to be with you he was turned down. I would not call you either. You either like this guy or you don't. It is as simple as that. Quit playing these silly *** little games with the guy and he might call you or text you. Guys aren't going to hang around long especially when you say one thing and then do another. Be consistent with your actions. If you like a guy find time to be with him. If you do not then do what you have been doing, turning him down. So really I do not blame the guy I would not call you or text you either. Just remember there is a big world out there and you are not the only fish out there to be catched. So either get your act together or forget this guy.
2006-11-22 08:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him, maybe. If I was him I would feel after two rejections you didnt enjoy yourself on Sunday. Maybe wait a day and if he hasnt textd send him one.
2006-11-22 07:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Zoe M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels rejected... I think you've played hard to get too much. Just call the guy!
Don't play games, if you really like him.... It is no fun being on the recieving end...
2006-11-22 07:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by gio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got tired of being told no..
he probably doesn't think your interested..
unless you gave him a good reason.. perhaps you should have suggested a day you were free..
if you haven't been texting him all crazy like.. maybe you can suggest a time to meet up see what he says
2006-11-22 07:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep. he is gone, he thought u were not interested. u start manipulate guy after he gets hooked on u, not right after he just got slight interest
2006-11-22 07:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! no everything is just fine!!!! heheh
ofcourse u should get worried coz he dumped u !
2006-11-22 07:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah honey you should cos you are trying to play hard to get and man hated that...but if you ignored it they will get curious! be patient, he will call. if not than he is not worth your attention cos man who don fight for their meat not worth livin/waitin for.....
2006-11-22 07:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... boy's like to date!...... If that's to much for you,... he'll simply re-place you with someone else who does,.... that way, he's far less likely to inconvenience you!.... Do yuh get the drift!...
2006-11-22 08:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋