me and my boyfriend are going out a week and a half but we dont get too see each other much as i live n cork and he lives in dublin......we talk every day on the phone but i dont know what he wants.... some days its grand but other days it sounds to me that he dont want me..... what should i do?????
2006-11-21 23:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol
just think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
2006-11-21 23:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by fulaien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters, slow down!
You have only been seeing each other for a week and a half. Maybe he is sounding funny because he feels you are rushing him, and he doesn't quite feel ready yet. If you really want this relationship to work, take it slower. Don't pressure him or you will scare him off. Get to know each other first, before you start getting all frantic when things don't always go "grand". That's life cookie! There are alot more downs than UPS sometimes, and you just have to learn to ride them out. Failing this, look for a boyfriend closer to home.
2006-11-22 07:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every boy is like that they dont know what they want just like some girls they dont know what they want . everbody tests each other in a realtionship to see how serious they really are about each other and you shouldnt be worried about this know yall have not been together all that long and maybe he nis worried about the long distance realtionship
2006-11-22 07:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone in cork dublin men play away
2006-11-22 07:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please dont slip into unwanted relationships which is not sure at all. If u are serious in love and you want to marry him ,and if you find that your relation is trust worth and not just for time pass or sex ,then only continue..else please dont spoil life my dear friend..
Talk with him seriously...All The Best !!!
Look Before You Leap..!!!!
2006-11-22 07:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by roni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times friends like mad people! They think differently! dont worry
2006-11-22 07:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling bore in his company now , better start looking some one very near to your place also .
2006-11-22 07:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow....don't push and just let it happen...if it is meant to be then it will happen ....if not, you will find someone else....
2006-11-22 07:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him
2006-11-22 07:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about talk to him about it, not us
2006-11-22 07:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋