Have you ever split up with some one and still loved them?

Question

Did you get over the split? Does this differ depending on if your a man or woman?
And would you still love and visit this person years later?

Answer 1

when i was 17 i started seeing this boy that i had really liked for about 2 years. He eventually wanted to make things more serious and for some reason i said no and finished with him. I now know that i shouldnt have done that cos i did and still do really like him. My life took a different path and even now 10 years later i wonder what might have been if id said yes instead of no. i still see him now and still feel the same way about him but ive never had the courage to ask him out or anything. So the answer is yes i have yes i still do feel that way about him.

Answer 2

I left a guy because i couldn't stand him, i loved him but i wasn't in love with him, this is a big difference. When you break up with some one the feeling of love might still be there, but other things more important then love make a relation ship work. Also alot of people mistaken being and love and being attached, when you can make that difference, you love life becomes way easier. When you are dating some one lets say for a year, during this year lets say you saw this person 3 times a week. Then when you break up all of a sudden you stop seeing that person, so you have 3 days in the week where you have nothing to do. So you miss this persons company because you are bored, and then you think of the good times you had, this is mistaken by love many times,

Answer 3

Yes I did split with someone I loved and kept on loving her after a while. She cheated on me and when time came she told me that she had enough.

After months with the help of some REAL FRIENDS yes I've managed to get over it.

I don't know if this will differ from a man to a woman but I think that the most important thing is to have REAL FRIENDS.

After our break up I tried to arrange the situation but she didn't want. Now that I moved on, I will never ever love and visit her again because I'm afraid of her.

I don't know if you agree or not but that was my experience and I don't want to suffer what I suffered. I even don't want my worst enemies to suffer what I suffered because of her and the actions done by her. Hope it helps and GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

Yes .. I loved him. No, I didn't get over the split (split was only couple months ago). Women tend to be more emotional and sensetive and so I personally think it's harder for a woman. Sometimes it is hard for men, too. No, I wouldn't visit him .. too painful. We both cared for and loved eachother, but we mutually agreed to split for personal reasons.

Life does go on. Try not to look back, but in front of you. When you're looking behind you, you might miss out on an opportunity right in front of you.

Take care,
nemo

Answer 5

Yes, but sometimes you have no choice.. it takes a while.. sometimes years to get over a true love, but you do move on and your broken heart will mend. I think its the same whether you're a man or a woman, but usually men just don't like to admit they feel the same way.

Its up to you and only you if you want to visit years later- you might still love them, it depends.. but only you will know whats right if and when that times comes.

Answer 6

Yes - just recently split (again) after trying again. THis is making it easier to get over as nothing has really changed.

About your third question: how is anyone supposed to tell not actually having been both sexes.

Love them years later? Somehow but I'd hope to make space for someone else by then. Defo wouldn't visit or see thme again.

Answer 7

yes. the split was my decision, not one i wanted to make but one i felt i had to. im still in contact with the girl i split from and i intend to be for the foreseeable future. it hurt at the time but i had to make a decision and i know it was the right one.
if this is the situation you are in then you need to make a decision over whether it is worth trying to save something from the relationship i.e friendship. time apart is however essential.
i do not think it is any different for a man than it is for a woman. people can be the same regardless of what sex they are.

Answer 8

I dont know about love and visit them years later. But when you split up with someone its not necessarily coz you dont love them anymore. Love doesnt always keep a relationship together. You just have to remember you split up for a reason.

Answer 9

No, No, No. I think I wont go back to any man with whom I have split up for yearts. Reason: 1st, if we did love each other, we should never broken up before. 2nd, If one of us did not love another one, how could I go on? To bother a man not love me? Or to be bothered by a man I did love any more? 3rd, maybe I visit him to hurt myself again then I would remember this lesson? I hated this experience. Hope u do right.

Answer 10

i am male, we split up barely over 3 years ago, we were together for about 7 years, had two kids together. still not over her. cant hold down a serious relationship. not trying to discourage you, just answering the question. and we are best friends now. we get along great. but i still have those "feelings". not sure if they will ever go away or not. but life goes on as will i. and if this is your predicament, im sure you will too.