My friend is a Sales manager in a big company. That company is comingup with 2 new offices in his region. He has been shouldered up with all the responsibilites for the same. (Shortlisting the situation, size of office, office setup, interiors, appointments of staff, official correspondence..n all). we don't belong to same city so distance factor is there. We had last met a day before diwali.
I am working too n sumtimes feel stressed. I need his time, care n love. I often calls him, msg him 5-7 times a day, but he didn't reply. On calls too either he says he is busy right now or he is driving. I know n understand that he have lot of responsibilities to cope up with but can any person be too busy to just reply with a HI on cell. Afterall he is also giving time to his family his mom.
I love him n He says he loves me too. I had a dental surgery in back days n hav not yet got the chance to inform him abt that. I need his care n love in my pain. what do U ppl think is going on?
2006-11-21 23:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by friendspiya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok.
He loves you too, doesn't he? Maybe he IS too busy. Try to contact him, but make sure you don't disturb him during his work time. Maybe late night, or early morning, or on a holiday. He should know that you know how busy he is, and that you respect his work and what he is doing.
Does he have any holidays? If its possible you could go to his city if it is not very far off. Talk to him then. If it is far off, then ask him to talk to you on the phone. I'm sure he has some holidays!
As for the problem that he doesn't reply to your smses, don't sms him for a few days. Maybe he takes you for granted. Don't do anything for a few days.
I hope you don't mind, but its always possible that because you haven't known each other long, he doesn't really like you.
So, don't try to contact him for a few days, weeks, actually. Then if he contacts you, its ok, otherwise you contact him when he's free and talk to him. Explain to him that you need more of his time. Be calm, don't get angry. And if its getting out of control and he doesn't contact you for a long time, its best if you leave him.
Hope the matter gets resolved soon!
2006-11-21 23:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like in your heart he is more than 'a friend'
you obviously have feelings for him, so you are craving for his attention and are being so demanding.
you are not able to tolerate that he does not have time for you. this also shows that he does not share your feelings. have you told him about your feelings ? do you love this guy ? if you do, talk to him and tell him how you feel. maybe you will get a reply from him wether he feels the same or not.
if you are his friend, and care about him then be understanding. maybe the guy is really busy and genuinely does not have time for you in life right now, in which case you should loosen up a bit and let him get on with what he needs to do and leave him alone, but let him know that you are there for him.
listen, when people get into jobs, or marriages or relationships etc their priorities change, they change, it doesnt mean anything personal and you shouldnt take it to heart.
good luck
2006-11-22 07:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you have to give him space for now. He seems to be stressed out too. No matter how busy a person is, he will always find time for someone he loves or care about.
2006-11-22 07:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is busy na let him busy and try to forget him becos how come some forget the person whom he love he is lying and try to forget him and keep urself busy in other activities inspite of thinking of him. Make new frnds so that you can share ur feelings and pains with them and forget him it is beneficial for you rather missing him
2006-11-22 07:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by jsnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe him, do you think he loves you, then you should be relax and leave him, b'use in that situation every one is busy, even you wont contact anyone if you are in that situation.
Be in his shoe, so leave as it is, he will speak when he get time.
I think you have to trust him. Since my situation is same here, my lover didnt contact me last 2 weeks, she has so many work, so i understand your situation, be relax. If possible help him to finish his work as soon as possible, that will great for him.
2006-11-22 07:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him be busy. Just try to maintain a little contact with him and ask if you can do anything for him just to share his workload. Once he is free or is tired from his work he will defenitely contact you.
2006-11-22 08:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Crish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure this guy wont to leave u, per harps he is angerly with you. find out if you have wrong him in one way or other,i am bit surprise for him to send sms to say hi. good luck, my dear
2006-11-22 07:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ONE PERSON TAKES THE RESPONSIBILITY OF ANYTHING HE FORGETS ALL THE THINGS DO WITH INTEREST EVEN SOMETIMES HE DOES NOT EAT HIS LUNCH OR DINNER. SO I DO NOT WANT TO SAY THAT HE IS IGNORING YOU. BUT HE IS BUSY AS PER YOUR QUESTION.
2006-11-22 07:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time and conditions every thing change with it. but feelings rarely
2006-11-22 09:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by U.O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is busy, let him be.
2006-11-22 07:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋