now ime thinkin , have i been bit hasty?
2006-11-21 22:40:58 · 23 answers · asked by wickedsoul132 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening. It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days. He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
2006-11-21 22:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by minotaur 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definitely hasty! I mean how well do you know this guy? He could be a complete psycho or something!
You form a relationship of sorts on-line, then when you meet in person it steps up a gear but there's no need to rush it even more!
Unless you want just sex from him? Cos by offering yourself so soon it's likely that's all the relationship can and will be. There's plenty of time to date and get to know each other properly. And you can have fun doing so. Why the rush?
2006-11-21 22:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that after just one meeting that it is a bit hasty to invite to your own home but it is done now but I do think you should be prepared to phone someone IE a friend or the police!
But I do hope it goes OK and you have a great time
Good luck
2006-11-21 22:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that does sound fast, and probably it would be best if you go out with him elsewhere once he arrives, probably to a good restaurant. Get to know him better, and a little more than what you already know. No matter how good they look, or how good they talk, you still need time to judge. And all this, you should be knowing better, cos' I am sure you are quite aware of all sorts of things that happen around you due to misuse of the internet.
good luck...hope he turns up a nice guy , really.
2006-11-21 22:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest you have been abit to hasty if you have only had coffee so far you should meet afew more times in public places and maybe when you get around to asking him home have him there for a meal with some friends as well.. good luck
2006-11-21 22:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by carol p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have,you know nothing about this bloke.
Now he will know where you live,if your ever meeting a stranger ,off the net or anywhere you should meet in a public place for at least a month.
Dont you read the newspapers,loads of nutters out there.
2006-11-21 22:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met a guy two months ago off the net . i had never done this before and was very nervous when we met up but he is a wonderful normal guy i didnt go alone on first meet he suggested i take my two children with me so i did we had a wonderful time and are now dating and i'm very happy . follow your heart have fun it can work out well .
2006-11-21 23:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by PAMELA F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have probably said meet in a public place a 2nd time first then go from there for the 3rd meet. Just be careful.
2006-11-21 23:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be meeting in a public place for a few dates is a better option.
2006-11-21 22:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have, a little. Call him and change the venue to a public place. Check him out a second time. Then invite him.....
2006-11-21 22:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋