i can't talk with boys freely, because i learnt only girl school, girls collage only. and also in my family so strict and too tradition. they are do'nt like boys friend. so i can't talk with boy. by chance somewhere talk with boys i will get so many fear. so how can face this problem.
2006-11-21 22:37:06 · 20 answers · asked by abcd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AFTER SOMETIMES ONLY YOU WILL SPEAK BOY REMAIN KEEP MUM.
2006-11-21 23:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Traditionally I would suggestbeing evaluated by a dr or shrink to see if there is more involved than environmental factors. Social Anxiety Disorder is freaking miserable to say the least. But in this case I can see where the environmetal factors could be outweighing the natural desire to be involved in social acticity.
My advice(to be taken as amatuer at best) is to try to join local social clubs of some sort(ie. church , pool league, book club) and if that produces no results in a short amount of time(2weeks to 2 months depending on the frequency of the meetings) I would definitely suggest professional help.
Although my factors involved are not the same I am personally aware of the agony that you live in because of your shyness and I can tell you that at times it takes meds to "ease you into" the social scene. If the problems are entirely environmental the need for meds should be rather short-lived. I'm not trying to recruit druggies, btw, but sometimes a short-term medicinal regimend can help tremendously.
Good luck.
2006-11-21 22:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should not think in a primate fashion. A girl is an individual and has hr own full individuality and personality and should be respected at all cost. Such baseless presumptive thinking is not appreciable. After all sex is a feeling and universal aspect and gender bias is no barrier. Therefore boys should not jump to a fast conclusion on this single count.
2016-05-22 13:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comon grl don't be stupid. Ofcourse u can talk to any boy infront of ur family. Just assure them dat he is JUST a frend of urs. They can trust u.
2006-11-22 03:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would we even NEED a men's day?
2016-12-06 13:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is that be friend with them, learn to approach and care for them. i can tell that boys are good friends, show your parents/family that nothing is wrong in having a friend that is boy. coz,anyway, you'll have ur own family someday right? god bless!!! c",)
2006-11-21 22:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by JanInE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and conquer your fear. Have confidence in yourself. Only you can do that. Remember we are creations of the same supernatural being. We are all equals in His eyes. So no need to feel shy .
2006-11-21 23:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lady can speak volumes without saying a word, use your eyes. They will notice that and talk to you.
2006-11-21 22:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had my period for 8 days?
2017-03-19 12:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't talk with boys freely............?
2014-12-08 07:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand ur problem...but the thing is if u hv to see urself sumwhere in ur life its upto u to make it happen...there is nuthin in keepin frnship with guys...infact a guy n a gurl can be the best of the frns rather than a guy/guy or a gurl/gurl frn......its jst u need to overcome ur fear....today the world is changing...so even if ur parents need to realise this fact...if they scold u for it then make them calmly understand that a frn is a frn no matter if he is a guy or a gurl....if they understand the value of relations they wld understand for sure...build ur confidence ......and u can make it.....i hope this helps...
2006-11-21 22:43:53 · answer #11 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋