I know that when a girl is very good looking, she's difficult for me to approach. I was wondering if girls feel the same way about guys. Do you think good looking girls find it difficult to approach guys?
2006-11-21 22:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by Cameron L 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, we do. For me personally, I often think that the guy is so good looking he probably has a whole bunch of women already interested in him. It's usually not the case, but it can be intimidating.
2006-11-21 22:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by bon b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say I am intimidated, but I just don't approach 'hot girls.' Why? Because I believe in what a wise old man told me about women, 'looks are a dime a dozen.' And I could truly care less how good a girl looks, although it won't seem that way by my answers here 'cause YA is all about harassing ppl for me. (: But when I do look at 'hot girls,' I am usually thinking 'wow, I wonder how many STDs that slag has?' and then I look away upon making eye contact not to look back again. And yes, I do also rate 1 to 10, but not all of the time. And when I do rate 1 to 10, it's NEVER based on appearance. It's what I see in the person and that's always by reading their eyes. So far, that's been one girl but we have nothing in common so I never pursued her and am glad I didn't. If you want to know the answer others will give, you have it here: men avoid 'hot girls' because THEY are intimidated. The only ones that don't avoid them are ones like me that don't care, or the ones that have been with so many that they just look for one thing from women, a three letter verb. I could spell it out for you if you like.
2016-03-29 05:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope-Looks are genetics and have nothing to do with the person. Besides, I don't think the fear of approaching a good looking person has anything to do with the other person. It has to do with the person asking and their confidence level. I've never really found it difficult to approach good looking men because I don't build up any preconceived fantasy, notion or expectations. If I'm rejected, it doesn't really phase me, because it's not personal-they don't even know me..next? And thank you GODFATHER Trilogy!
2006-11-21 22:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by apesee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.... for me... yes... it's often kinda hard to approach good-looking guys because insecurities and fears will start to play like. it depends on what you mean by "approach". If it's just a simple plain "approach", it's not that hard but if you have other intentions in mind... well it's kind of a different thing like what you said. But it's just me... :)
2006-11-21 22:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I,personally would approach him as a friend or with the intension of been his friend.I show him how sweet and interesting i am...flirt a bit but never directly approach him bout how I really feel.If he finds me attractive then he would make the move.It has never failed me yet.So to answer your question...no its not difficult if you know how to be smooth.
###Do you have a problem approaching good looking girls?...Did I spell this right?
2006-11-21 22:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not difficult, as long as you are confident in yourself, whats the worst that can happen? he will say no. big deal. I met my future husband that way, I walked over to him and just said hello. He is the hotest thing! I love him dearly
2006-11-22 02:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..they r diff to approach..
most of them tend to have attitude..be it u approach them for frenship or watever..
2006-11-21 22:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeaH others but not all
2006-11-21 22:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.......didnt I come to you?
2006-11-22 06:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋