i had this man that i loved so much ,but we cant be together for religous reasons,so he is dating now with other girl and he told me if we can be friends,i said yes but later i found i cant stop loving him and treat him as a friend ,all i was thinking is how to get him again,that affected me and my health ,so i write him that we should stop being friends and told him why,was that right thing to do ? to give up him completely even as a friend,although i love him so much ,i couldnt lie to him and treat him as friend,all in my mind was how a woman think of a man.
2006-11-21 22:18:26 · 13 answers · asked by borz_f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you did do the right thing. If you know 100% that there is no way for you two to betogther then why put yourself through a heartbreak again.
2006-11-21 22:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Borz: Perhaps I would have done it differently but, it's done so, let it go. I've had heart break several times that hurt so bad and, I'm 67 years old. Of course it's all over now, but as I think back, I still feel the pangs of love. I don't think your heart ever forgets, there's a place in the heart that stores all this. It makes you a better person for that special one, when they come along in life so, take care and good luck sweetheart.
2006-11-22 06:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of a few couples that made it even thought they were of different faiths. I don't see why you guys couldn't have stayed in a relationship, all you had to do was respect each others faith and you would have been fine. However if you had deep feelings for him and don't feel that you could remain friends then you did the right thing. I know how hard it is to see someone you love with someone else
2006-11-22 06:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiii
if u have written that u both shall stop being as friends and why, then u have done very good job.but remember one hing that THIS IS YOUR LIFE AND YOU ARE GOING TO LEAD YOUR LIFE WITH THAT PERSON.
im so sorry fi i hurt u by saying like this.
dont b so childish by taking hasty decisions, just be what you are.
Just dont EXPECT a lot in return and do your work, thats it.
bye friend
HAVE A NICE TIME
2006-11-22 06:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by HAVE A NICE DAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and that person were not really meant to each other, then you just let it be. you may have your own solution by deleting him as your friend, but it is not the right thing to treat a person as nobody. maybe i could be your friend..just send me an IM at dp4alt0153@yahoo.com. i can be your consultant anytime; we can chat and talk about your problems and i can be your trusted friend: in this you may not regret.
2006-11-22 06:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by dp4™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u did the ry8 thing, Donn hurt ur self babes ,, u will meet someone woth tym
2006-11-22 06:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like it! All u gotta do now is try 2 keep ur mind off of him.
2006-11-22 06:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drug him and tie him to the bed and feed him girlfriend and dumplings, fried girlfriend, girlfriend chili or maybe a girlfriend snapper sandwich.
2006-11-22 06:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did a very right thing. i wud have done the same thing. dont be upset. its better to go away then staying n regretting.
2006-11-22 06:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by shalin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right or wrong, you've done it. So, stick with your story! Don't back down now!
2006-11-22 06:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋