Do you think she is irresponsible?
I have recently gotten out of a friends with benefits relationship with a woman 11 years older than me (she's 35). She says she has bipolar and she is divorced with 3 kids i really cared for her and for me it wasn't just about the sex and she said the same too.
However she was also having a sexual relationship with a 40 year old guy who was living with girlfriend for 3 years, she thought she loved him but admitted he used her for sex. She was also sleeping around with other guys.
Everyone I have told about this says she is irresponsible, very ill, annoying, selfish, loud, a skank, a user. If this is so why can't I see this, it seems I am blinded by it all.
I guess deep down I am afraid something bad will happen to her as if you put all the above in the mix it is inevitable. Do you think this woman is a bomb just ready to explode at any time? I have a bad feeling about all this and just a matter of time
2006-11-21 22:15:07 · 11 answers · asked by jdppdf f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to run away really fast for this one...
2006-11-21 22:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JDP: What! you've got to be kidding, right, this letter to us is a joke? Don't you see what your saying? this "Woman" is a user and some kind of freak. She is way older then you, having sex with someone else and, sleeping around, besides may or may not, love someone else and, when she tires of you, she starts the circuit again.
All I can say is she is not the problem here, you are pal. Your the one that needs the help.
All I can suggest is run, do not walk, out of this relationship, very fast. Get a life, start seeing someone your age for Pete's sake. Get a life.
2006-11-21 22:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not feel bad at all. Having said that, I know that nothing will stop you from feeling bad, if that's the way you are. So, I think your best option would be to open your eyes wides than usual, and try finding yourself another woman, period, unless of course you love tormenting yourself. In such a case, I would say the more, the merrier. It is your life.
2006-11-21 22:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for her also-----bipolar can be quite a challange. You are not responsible to guard and protect her as you have a right to live your own life. Yes she might very well be a ticking time bomb but you are not at fault if you treated her fair. Go your way and have a happy life.
2006-11-21 22:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some dreams a very vivid. I've had dreams about people doing stuff and was mad at them the next day, fully knowing it was a dream. Just remember they are only dreams and try to listen or watch something pleasant before bed. Also Know that you can control your dreams, just think happy thoughts.
2016-03-29 05:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her get yourself a life, go out with someone nearer your age.your 24, too young to be tied down with a 35 year old. im 31, i would not like to be with someone 11 years younger than me, because it would be unfair (on him) dont worry about what your leaving behind. its te kids i feel sorry for. they dont deserve men in and out of their lives, but thats not your fault its hers she is irresponsable, get out!!!
2006-11-21 22:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't like the answers you got the first time... Sounds like you might like drama. SHE IS A SKANK
2006-11-21 22:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by She Said 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly, my friend..from what you said about this woman starting from the age difference, what is it exactly that you love about this woman?
2006-11-21 22:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by zaina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Lone Ranger...you cannot save this one, heck she does not want to be rescued by you.... move on.
2006-11-21 22:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by denonvillier 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the woman need help.
2006-11-21 22:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋