I really like this girl and we've gone out a few times (she's nvr had a boyfriend b4 and shes' 17 and i'm 17), it was pretty obvious that she liked me as well. she wanted to be alone with me and she offers to go out sometimes even invited me to her sister's party once so that she wasn't alone. Up until about 3 days ago, she didn't seem to have any awkward feelings toward me. About 4 days ago, she told me that she cudn't come to my house bcos she had to stay home (parents) (we planned for us to watch a movie at my house earlier). Now, when i found out that she went to another friend's place, i got upset and demanded an explanation from her. She called me and explained that it was only for half hour and it wasn't planned. She freaked out on me and called me later to say that she's getting the feeling that i like her more than a friend but she only likes me as a friend. She also said that i call her and expect too much of her at any time, she needs her space.
2006-11-21 22:05:38 · 16 answers · asked by jun j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i become friends with her again? or should i just walk away and not keep in contact?
2006-11-21 22:06:25 · update #1
walk away...that always seems to get them to come back...lol! Just be careful...she sounds like she's playing games
2006-11-21 22:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be your decision, If you feel that you cant be friends with her because you just cant bear seeing her with someone else then move on. I reallly think that she does like you alot and it just scared her that you needed an answer from her. She felt you were taking things way too fast. Obviously she didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you she wanted to hang out with another friend.
2006-11-22 06:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may be quite difficult but dont do either...i mean dont go into two extremes.
she clearly has developed some sort of a crush on this other person..plus you both are so young..it happens..
i think you should let her know how you feel about her, and how you feel now that she dumped you for someone else....
and then you can decide wat to do..either stay out of contact forever (ie break up) or still be friends...
2006-11-22 06:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by sah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think maybe you are becoming just a little possesive of her. Yes you may like this girl but i think being friends with her would be the right thing to do. Take it slow, she does like you, but it looks like she wants to take abit more time.
2006-11-22 06:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by dee bee007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to remain as a friend, may at some point in time she will change her attittude towards you.Give her the spacethat she needs.
2006-11-22 06:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by memonikos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away its not worth the pain,she might miss you and try to get back in your life then you can set some rules...
2006-11-22 06:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on as friend , you still young as she is to , you needs some space to , you are not in hurry ..
2006-11-22 06:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss remain frens with her.. remain as normal frens. show not ur feelings to her, else u will lose her..
as time goes by, may b she'll gradually develop feelings 4 u..
Gd Luck!
2006-11-22 06:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by ½ L0VE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you wanted more from her than she wanted from you. if you want only friendship stay friends but if you want more then tell her and let her know how you feel about her but give her time to think . do she want to take your friendship to another level. good luck
2006-11-22 06:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing serious happened between u 2 just be friends and give her space ;)
2006-11-22 06:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋