in short, what do you do if you get busted by your partner?
2006-11-21 22:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by Grand Phuba 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ouch! that hurts! but try movin on? i know you cant easily forget the things that happend between you two... but you need to try and live life again....
2006-11-21 22:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by FiLipina Lass^^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you engaged if you are tinkering around with someone else? I just met a women today who is ending her marriage after being married for 10 months because she caught the guy having an affair and it had been going on for a year. 10 months later, 1 baby and 1 divorce. If you really loved her and wanted to spend the rest of your life with her, you wouldn't be dipping in someone else bath! I don't think you should be so quick to fix this problem. You messed up. Actions speak louder than words. What do you want? What do you really want? Figure that out before you try and fix something that has deeper underlying issues. She's deserves better and you deserve someone you won't have any desire to cheat on. Hope I didn't jump the gun on the cheating thing-but thats how I took your question. If I misunderstood, please accept my apologies-but I still believe you should hold off on trying to calm the waters until you have really had a chance to think things through-ALONE!
2006-11-21 22:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by apesee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Think how very glad you are that this happened Now and not Later! (You can be glad about that for the rest of your life!)
2) Look at a globe or a world map or rush hour traffic and think of the millions, probably billions of people who think you're just fine.
3) Take extra good care of your health. NEWSTART: Nutrition Exercise Water, Sunlight Temperance fresh Air Rest Trust in a higher power. Every time you feel a wave of pain, pause, breathe, and plan something nice for yourself. Happy people are very attractive.
2006-11-21 22:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 13:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get busted... in which case you deserve to feel the pain, or did you bust your partner, in which case, time will heal and consider yourself lucky you found out before the wedding....
2006-11-21 22:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by She Said 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one of life hardest moments. allow yourself to hurt, cry yourself to sleep but deep down know u gotta move on. Dont try to contact them or to beg them to come back to you.
remember when a realatioship ends it doesnt mean u r not good or u have some shortcomings its that it wasnt meant to be with that particular person.
recollect yourself, start something new, like going to the gym, or any other hobby, change your hairstyle and your dressing, enjoy life and look at it positively and beleive in love again and someone who deserves you will come on your way.
we all suffer broken hurts at one stage in our lives it all depends on how we deal with it.
2006-11-21 22:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Essie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every dissappointment is a blessing in disguise, i have proved that because if i had accepted my dissappointed engagement and not go accept to try again my marriage wouldnt have been the mess it is now.......it is a early warning be happy!!!!
2006-11-21 22:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 4get him..n do thngs u lyk 2 do..hang out wid frenz..listen 2 music, work..wtver
2006-11-21 22:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋