I've been sleeping with a married man and his wife just had a baby he brought the baby over for me to see,I think his wife has been cheating on him because its the ugliest baby ive ever seen,it couldnt possibly be his its got a huge round cone head and it looks kind of c.o.c.k eyed and its skin is swarthy ( like an uglier midget version of George Lopez)....and my b/f is white...how should i tell him he should get a DNA test without sounding mean about it??????? and if he asks why i told him that should i tell him theres no way that ugly baby could be his?? or should i make up and excuse?? and what should i say?
2006-11-21 21:05:11 · 19 answers · asked by @ubreY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-21 21:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First: I think that you are being a b**ch sleeping with a married man!!!!!!!!!
Second: it's none of your business how the baby looks like. It's just too young to be pretty, so enough with that!
Third: Don't invent things, you are making things up because you want him to have fights with his wife. You are jealous of their happiness!
4. Not every woman is like YOU! Not every woman cheats, so shut up and don't put your nose where you shouldn't !
And the last point: Get an available man and leave him enjoy his life with his wife and his child! Don't ruin their happiness!
DO YOU GET THAT???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 05:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe....the baby is gonna turn out to be his. Because nothing would make this child MORE unhappy than to find out he father's mistress is calling him ugly.
How should you go about this is to stop f@$king him. Before you have his child and he cheats on you with someone else. And if he loves this child and wants to be it's father. Don't break the kids' heart. It's not the childs fault the parents (& the mistress) is jacked up.
2006-11-22 05:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jusntyme21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should learn a little more about genetics and children... My son is swarthy and both me and my wife are pale white... BUT I have family members who are from the Mediterranean area, so are olive skinned... I know my son is mine, because he looks like me, but his skin colouring is a throw-back to other genetic traits... Could be the same with your b/f's... And I'm sure you'd only use that tactic to break up his marriage for your own greedy personal gain... Shame on you!!!
2006-11-22 05:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could you have seen him ugly coz thats what u wanted to see?
cud it be u want him not to be his? its none of your business to tell him that u think he is not the father of that baby. He might hate you for it and cut all lines of communication with you.
and what abt that part that u think his wife cheated on him??? talk of removing a log in somebody's eye.
leave the baby alone actually he had no right to bring the baby to u.
2006-11-22 05:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Essie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to say anything. He was wrong to have an affair with you and wrong to bring the baby for you to see. Not ALL children look like the parents...could resemble an aunt or uncle, cousin, etc. You and he have a lot of room to talk about HER having an affair...when the 2 of you are! NERVY!
2006-11-22 05:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its funny how you turn around the betrayal you and him have shown to his wife, by making her out to be the bad one. If the baby was a spitting image of him, you would say the same thing about him not being the father. Both of you should be neutered and spayed.
2006-11-22 05:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by ckgene 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U do not mind her cheating on her because he is giving u the enjoyment. Why r u prying into her affairs whether she is faithful or not? The genes which the child gets may not necessarily be all those of his immediate parents. They cud come to him from any of his ancestors from both the parents' side.
2006-11-22 05:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on the earth you should harm his wife cuz by sleeping with you he is also cheating on her.. Does not he?
You go on your way and let them live in their own way.. If you think your assumption is right then this thing will help you to get rid of guilty feeling...
2006-11-22 05:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a human born in that way, that was God will.You should give him a helping hand instead of adding wood into the fire at your mind. By the way, talking out bad of other is not health in life.
Bless you.
2006-11-22 05:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has to be the most messed up situation i have heard. hes cheating on his wife, his wife is cheating on him. hes bringing his baby so his girl friend can see him. that kid has no chance.
2006-11-22 05:09:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋