She is an amazing girl, everything about her makes me melt... its just, she like this other guy... so i ask... how do you think i should try and win her over? she means the world to me......
2006-11-21 19:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by Ninja x Core 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yrself.....show her that u really like her n dat she means something to u...express yr feelings n neva try to hide yr drawbaks........be yrself n dunt pretend......she'll love u as u are, n love cannot be forced over....let her know abt yr feelings n be nice.....
2006-11-21 19:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can do is continue to be a friend and concentrate on that over being in love with her.
I would say your chances of winning her over are maybe optimistically 50/50 at best. I wouldn't like those odds very much. I'd seek love elsewhere and try to get past these feelings unless you get some encouragement from her.
That's probably not the answer you want, but you have two hearts and two minds and they are independent of each other.
Your best hope of winning her over is to continue to be her friend. Talk to her, and at some point tell her how you feel, but choose the moment carefully. She may want you as a friend but not as a lover. If that's the case you must accept it.
I went through that a few times, so I understand how you feel. Good luck.
2006-11-21 19:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the saying don't mow another mans grass.You could end of a real looser with this so go easy.If she is your best friend ,she will have told you her feelings about her guy.
Be very careful you could loose her as a friend and any chance you may hook up in the future.
Also her boyfriend will properly get pretty dark about you trying to move in. If I was you and her friendship meant that much try and handle it and see what time does.
Even if she drops him or whatever be careful.She may love you as a friend but not be interested in you as a lover. Its often the way it is.Sad but true.
2006-11-21 20:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so hard!! i kinda have that problem... well you cant really do anything YOU CAN tell her but thats crap advice coz i no how hard it is to talk. i think you should just stay as friends believe me it happend to me and it ruined my friendship for good we dont even talk anymore now that me n this guy had went out. it sux. believe me i think its probably coz you spend heaps of time with her. you need to find another girl, im sure she just likes you as a friend. something might work out along the way but for now, let her like this guy and not deal with you okiies!
go find another girl, maybe your just too attached!!
hope i helped =]
2006-11-21 19:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her fast before she goes away.
And look out for the reaction.
may be she is not thinking about you like that.
It may be that she feels you just as a friend.
Be careful. May be you loose your best friend.
but dont loose your heart.
It can be like she also loves you and is waiting for you.
Best of luck.
2006-11-21 20:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by SACRED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have the same problem. I am also in love with my friend, J, she's so sweet, gorgeous, and well, I am head over heels for her. So my fellow "in love with best friend guy" I say we give it our best and hope it all turns out well. I mean if she's our best friend, she must like us, and well like spending time with us. So that's that. I am going for it, how about you?
2006-11-21 20:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by AllIWant2Know 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask. That is the best approach, ALWAYS!!!!!! Tell her how you feel. If you tell her what you just told us, she'll fall into your lap
2006-11-21 20:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by XxXTaRaXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my best friend...
2006-11-21 20:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her if she needs, always be with her, have long conversations, and be very very sweet to her.
2006-11-21 19:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her.
2006-11-21 19:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by ritziyap 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋