my roomate has been dating this girl for almost 3 years, practically inseperable for the first year. for sixteen months of that relationship he was in iraq serving our country. when he came back on leave after 8 months she tried to break up with him without a valid reason. now she is getting ready to graduate college and move back home. she believes that she is going to start her career and see the world blah, blah, blah. my roomate has been very good to her, but is still going to school. after all this she still wants to move back in with her controlling parents 300 miles from her boyfriend. he has pleaded with her to stay and let him finish his schooling but i guess her heart is set on going back home. she does not really give back anything to the relationship at least not in the same extent my roomate has. he is depressed and mopes around a lot. i am trying to help him out by getting some outside advice. i've told him what i think, please help him and tell me what you think.
2006-11-21 19:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about what? She broke up with him, she obviously doesn't care about him, and he needs to move on. That said, it isn't easy to get over these things emotionally right away. It takes time, more time for some people than others. I think the best way you can help cheer him up is to distract him from thinking about it for awhile. Rent a movie, have some friends over, do something fun.
2006-11-21 19:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an honest guy, tell him, that you it hurts but he needs to get over her, after all what good of a relationship it is if the girl's heart is not in to it, she wants to go and I think there is nothing that could stop that, and plus there are lots of other fish that he could get once he gets over her.
2006-11-22 03:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there is another guy back home for her ? Hey this reminds me of a country song " Wisky lullabye "
2006-11-22 03:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only worried about herself, not him - and being that he's a good guy, he can find somebody that's really worth the trouble.
2006-11-22 03:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them , set them free !! If it was meant to be , they will be together again.
2006-11-22 03:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by texmex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋