How difficult is it for a woman to remain with a man who is perpetually Impotent?!?

Answer 1

It's not hard

Answer 2

Your information is so limited, it's hard to give advice.
How old are you, are you married or single?How long have you been together?

If your married,then obviously this condition will have come on gradually and hopefully you and your wife will have been close enough to have discussed the effect it is having on you and her sexually.

If your just going out,the same applies,except the marriage vows are not included in the relationship i.e. "in sickness & health".So she may want to move on (that you will have to accept as her decision).

Have you been diagnosed as impotent by a doctor, or are you just having erectal problems?and presume this is the reason?

Have you tried viagra to try and solve your problem?

You can see the difficulty any of us have in answering your question with so little information, can't you?
Anyway.........If you are impotent and nothing works for you, you must, if you don't know already , learn how to satisfy your partner without penile penitration , unless her sex drive is pretty low and she isn't bothered
about the sexual side of your relationship.

Learning to be a good lover is very important in any relationship,whether either party has sexual problems or not. Sex can be great for a woman without the actual sex act.

It's always harder for men I think, to accept impotence than women, because they think they have lost their masculinity.

However, there are absolutely thousands of couples who practice cellabacy (sorry, not sure on the spelling of that) through personal choice, and who live long and happy lives together.

I'm sorry you are having this problem it's rotten luck.

The best advice I can give you is talk to your wife or partner whatever the case maybe, even though I know you will probably find that extremely hard to do (male pride and all that).
But knowing how your partner feels gives you options when you know the facts.

If she's your wife, then hopefully you are close enough to discuss and solve the problem together. If you have a girlfriend and she is complaining about your lack of sexual capability,then she really isn't the one for you, so let her go and move on.
I can assure you there are lots of females out there, who would'nt class this as a problem if your a good man in every other way.
If your loving and caring and like a cuddle at the end of the day, that can be everything .if you both love one another.
It is'nt sex at the end of the day that keeps people together, for we all have problems sooner or later in our lives, it's being loving and caring as I said, and being there for the other person when your most needed.

Do speak to your wife/partner, and I'm sure you will be able to put your mind at rest.
I wish you all the luck in the world.

Be brave, "pride goes before a fool you know".

Answer 3

Who is asking? The woman with the impotent man? or the man himself?

As a woman who lives with a man with a medical problem which makes him partially impotent, i would say that it is not difficult, if you are prepared to find ways round the problem. However, if it has made the man very depressed and he doesnt even want to help her find alternative ways, and maybe doesnt even want to cuddle, then i would say it was very hard and maybe impossible. We all want to feel loved!

It also depends on the age of the woman, how sexual she is and if she wants children.

To get more specific answers you need to elaborate on the question, but each woman is different, and communication between the woman and the man involved in this situation is the key to finding an answer.

Answer 4

i don`t think sex is the be all and end all of a relationship. wenever i`ve been in relationships in the past one of the things i look for is the friendship out of it because the way i see it is after a while the excitement dies down and wots left is the companionship. relationships need a good foundation otherwise they just will not survive. but saying that, u have needs. i don`t really know anything about impotency and i don`t know if men still feel h*rny. but if he does still feel h*rny then there`s still lots n lots of ways he could please u through foreplay. intercourse is just one way to get pleasure. trust me there are loads n loads of other ways to get pleasure as a couple. u never know, his old chap might pop up and suprise u!


wot an eeejit i am lol ur a guy asking the question lol for some d*ckhead reason i kept thinking i was answering a woman. somebody shoot me! lol. well same applies anyway!

Answer 5

It can be very difficult especially if sex is the most important part of the relationship. ( i really hope that its not). There is more to a relationship than sex. There's intimacy which is a deeper level o commitment. You have to make up in your mind that u will love this man even though he cant give you vaginal sex with his penis. There are other ways. You just have to be open about it. For instance, if he doesnt mind, he could use a dildo on you, or he can stimulate your clitoris with his hand or his mouth if u guys are into oral sex. Lastly, he must not let his impotence make him feel less than a man. If he does then there is going to be a huge emotional strain on the relationship.

Answer 6

It all depends on the needs of the woman. If you are thinking about this and you are a woman, you are probably already considering how your needs are outweighing the return you are getting. If you are a man who is impotent, then you already must have a level of self consciousness about it. Either way, there are medical and psychological methods to deal with this issue.

Answer 7

Difficult question to answer.

Some thoughts:

1. Has he tried Viagra?

2. How sexual a being are you? Are you the sort of woman who desires sex a few times a week, a few times a month, or a few times a year?

3. Are you comfortable with taking things in hand (ahem, so to speak)? If masturbation works for you, that might help.

Now, I don't necessarily expect you to provide answers to the above to anyone but yourself, but they are a place to start.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

it is very difficult, mainly because the man usually shuts down and won't deal with it.
If he won't, then there is trouble in the marriage, big trouble.

If your partner won't get help, he has to realize that he can't keep a relationship going by laying on his side of the bed and being so afraid to try that he shuts you off.

Answer 10

very difficult. we will stay with the man, probabaly because we love him. but we'll find someone else to give it to us on a regular basis. no normal woman can live without sex for a long time.

Answer 11

this is a "hard" subject to answer. hope those who are soft can and will answer. it happens often -- there are some druggist solutions--viagara is one of them. some illegal or immoral solutions such as have "silent partner" outside of the family environment. or decrease your importance and priority to that aspect of your life. you have a choice and the choice is not necessarily "take it or leave" it..there are some in betweens..try all.