if a guy/girl asks you out, and you knew that that person is with somebody else, would you still say yes i wanna go out with you also? knowing that in the end, that you would get hurt?
do you mind to be the second best? or the second option.?
2006-11-21 19:14:57 · 7 answers · asked by jennifer s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that would make you a piece of poo....
2006-11-21 19:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was asked this question two or three years ago, I might actually consider it especially if this guy who asked me out is someone who is REALLY, REALLY attractive, or a crush from way back.
HOWEVER, I am not that person anymore. So my answer will be:
NO, no matter how attracted I may be to the other person. It is not only morally wrong but against my conviction as well.
I know how it feels to be to on both sides: The 1st and the 2nd woman. And it only led to so many heartaches and pains that I wouldn't want to go through that anymore simply because I know better and I am not going to settle for anything less than what God wants for my life.
2006-11-21 19:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spending time with that person is not a problem. Being his secret relationship on the side -- that's a problem.
One guy was interested in me, even though he was already in a serious relationship and had no intention of leaving his girlfriend. I spent a lot of time with him as friends, but when things got steamy in the bedroom, I just couldn't do anything. It just felt so wrong.
People told me that I should go for it, and if he's a cheater, then that's his problem. But the way I look at is "it takes two to tango" -- meaning that even though he's benig a bad boyfriend, I was the one that encouraged it along.
I recommend keeping your distance -- especially if you know you'd get hurt in the end.
2006-11-21 19:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't deserve to be anyone's second choice or second best. I am sure you don't either. If this person is asking you out when they are with someone else, it is probably a booty call and that will be as far as it goes. In this situation, it is best to close one door before opening another. Why set yourself up for a heartache. NO! NO! and NO!
If they will do it for you, they will do it to you.......
2006-11-21 19:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who do that have low self-esteem & other issues. i would rather have my own man who wasn't wrapped up with someone else. who wants to be the "other" woman?
2006-11-21 19:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i definitely wouldn't allow it or do it!!!
2006-11-21 19:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way.
2006-11-21 19:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by ritziyap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋