I met this guy on line dated for sometyme and we decided that i go visit him. we had a good weekend and the sex was great.
but i realized that it seemed all he was intersted in is sex, seems he loves it 24/7 which is not he case with me.
i thot i shud play smart wiht him and created 2 different account using different names and i added him on my chat. all he talked about was sex inviting the two gals( it was me) to go see him and have endless sex with him. i was so hurt coz i thot we ahd something going on but i also blamed myself for playing games.
he still doesnt know its not me and he is serioulsy asking one gal out and telling her how beautiful she is and lots os bla bla
shud i just say goodbye and say this was jsut an online craze?
2006-11-21 19:09:19 · 14 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes sweetie dump the wierd virtual reality sex addict..y did u even get into this kindda trouble. keep life simple.things like these would juz make stuff more complicated n painful for u.n i think u did a good job testing that guy ..so no reason to blame urself..rather pat urself on the back!
2006-11-21 19:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by ankita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of people you meet on the internet. Flirtation and sex is only a minor part of a relationship. However, I don't think you have even established a deep level of understanding with this person. Before you develop further on the relationship, or become more committed, see clearly what you are getting into. You deserve better choices.
The problem of meeting people on-line is that things come and go quickly. We need to spend time with the person in order to know him/her as a person before making a decision on whether we can establish a relationship.
With a prosmiscuous person like this, also beware of sexually transmitted disease.
2006-11-22 03:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by nanafunfun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you need to dump him, and yesterday. Keep in mind you have in effect, just slept with all his previous partners. You need to check yourself for STD's. Wise up. Why sleep with a guy when you really didn't know him?
2006-11-22 03:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an out-going type of person. You can't really expect not to be cheated on by those people whether it was an accident or not. Accident as in getting drunk, etc... You should choose your guys on personality not looks or popularity.
2006-11-22 03:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by lucifersblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem unable to make wise decisions at this time in your life. You need to be alone until you can get your sh!t together and make better choices. Dump him.
2006-11-22 03:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you shouldn't even have to think about dumping him; dump this loser! he is a selfish jerk who is only after you for one thing and one thing only.. you are worth so much more than that.
move on, and find someone else who will appreciate you and show you what you're worth. you deserve to be treated with respect.
2006-11-22 04:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by sweet-nothings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you had got the right answer. You had clearly understood what he had wanted BUT he would not return what you wanted. Dont hurt yourself again. Dump him!!!
2006-11-22 03:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shirley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously, he only wanted sex from you. how obvious do you want it to be? you're contemplating of having a relationship with this guy? you're out of your mind! dump the dude! he's not worth your time.
2006-11-22 03:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a big 10-4 ... dump him ... he is only a sex nut and forget him
2006-11-22 03:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to get away from this sex-crazed maniac.
2006-11-22 03:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋