Who's The Perfect Guy...?

Question

What is your definition of the perfect guy?
Mine is:
Funny
Sweet
Sarcastic and witty
Intelligent
Well mannered
Tall
Tattoos
Golfer
Dark hair
Punk rock
Nerdy (in a cool way)
Responsible
Family oriented
and many more...

the sad thing is that many of us have these long lists of things we want in a man (and i use the term "man" very loosely here), and it's not that we settle, it's that he doesnt exist. so we pick the top 3 things that are most important to us and hope for the best.
perfect guy are you out there?
why is it so damn hard to find you...

Answer 1

What is wrong with "The Bucket"?

Answer 2

modestly speaking i can only check out as some of that stuff.....
Funny - yeah that's me alright =D
Sweet - I like to think so!
Sarcastic and witty - more sarcastic than witty =\
Intelligent - have to be or else I'll end up broke >.>;
Well mannered - Some times im rude without realizing it.
Tall - really does depend, im 5'11
Tattoos - nah, im not into them like my brothers.
Golfer - Boring!
Dark hair - yup, naturally dark brown haired.
Punk rock - not really my style, im more hard rock!
Nerdy (in a cool way) - I'm a book worm =P
Responsible - Goes with the turf, its always about the deadline.
Family oriented - Where would i be without my family?
Well, guess im only half your "perfect" man, it seems ^_^. Maybe your perfect guy is still out there. Just gotta keep searching for 'em, even when things get you down =).

Answer 3

well i think you said yourself what you believe.. that he doesnt exist, when you actually find it you will seek the flaws in disbelief focus on them and reject it as a whole.
You finish by asking are you out there.. regardless of the humor or seriousness. two lines above you told him he didnt exist? would you expect him to reply? and if he did reply?

if someone said they were all thats on your list. would you be like woooo! and talktoem?

I know the first lady would be like brad!!! hellayea.. i got me some brad! she wouldnt hesitate.. she knows what the perfect man for her is.

and yes there is such a thing as a perfect man. words have more than one meaning lookem up.. and stop being (nerdy in a dumb way) erm *points* you know who you are people

perfect use look-up in microsft word...
definition 3. excellent or ideal in every way
definition 4. especially suitable - having all the necessary or typical characteristics required for a given situation
no microsoft word? check the link below.. #3

There are many perfect people for everyone.. sorting and finding them is the hard part..

I told someone i was perfect once (knowing that true perfection :without errors, flaws, or faults. is impossible)... shes yet to discredit me as being perfect in her thought. in 6years and we arent even together anymore... lol so go figure that crazyness..

people do settle for "less" all the time but there are things that cant be written or spoken that drive people to be in love... Why make a list or seek out something that can be compromised for something else? seek love, compassion, and understanding like Greekhunnydip describes so vividly

I think more suitable is 2 lists one of needs and one of wants. You will find most peoples needs fit into the description of the ideal man or woman.

and btw Acording to your list he isnt under your nose, your under his… dont set a list and not think about it ;)
stop lookin under your nose, think outside the box...?

Answer 4

No such thing exists, but it's the same for us guys too. Besides, I don't want the perfect someone. I want someone who's going to be a little tough here and there that takes a little work. I'm not talking about an anorexic that needs brought back to life, but I don't want a girl who is going to agree with me all the time.

You wouldn't want ice cream on apple pie every night of the week either. Ideas change. I have a fetish for girls in glasses, and one for brunettes, but some of the women I've been in relationships for years were blonde and didn't wear contacts or glasses, and never did I ask them to get glasses or dye their hair. I've dated brunettes in glasses before, but there were times that a blonde or redhead (yummy!) turned my head in a positive way, and they were not wearing glasses.

I hope you gals find your ideal, and I hope you have a safe and filling Thanksgiving.

Answer 5

There is no perfect guy.

There is no perfect girl.

So you settle just a little. You make choices about what is important. You do the mature thing.

I believe the odds of having a long-term relationship improve significantly if you move past that whole "perfect" thing.

Answer 6

I am :
funny
sweet
sarcastic and witty
intelligent
well mannered
tall enough
tattoos
golfer
dark hair
nerdy in a cool way
responsible
family oriented
what else u need

Answer 7

to me a perfect guy is someone who is loving, sensitive, intelligent, with a sense of humour,

someone who listens to me, someone who cares and loves me to death and someone who will always be there. The eyes are the best assets a man can possess followed by a bright smile.
strong hands and wide chest to accomodate me.

Answer 8

guys have the same lists for us. my top 3 are family oriented, funny, sweet. sometimes, they're not as hard to find as we make it out to be. sometimes, they're right under our noses......try looking a little closer to home

Answer 9

i want a man who can put up with my strong persona and who's not afraid to bow down to me. that's all i ask. i don't care for the other things. if the guy can't put up with me, then it's no use.

Answer 10

there's no such thing as "perfect" because perfection cannot be achieved. everything has flaws..

he maybe perfect for you, but for some he's not..

i suggest you find the "right" guy... not the "perfect" guy..

Answer 11

oh he's there alright, dont you worry bout that!your perfect guy may not be perfect to the rest of the world but dont let that fool you...