Guys, when you are having sex with a girl do you ever picture that you are having sex with another girl instead, such as an ex-girlfriend?
My ex-boyfriend and I only dated for a month, he was my first bf while he was older and more experienced than me. We never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. The thing is he still says hi to me on msn even though HE ended it 8 months ago! and I saw him a few days ago on the street and he said he wants me to contact him so we can hang out.
I assume that he has slept with other girls after he ended our relationship, now how possible is it that while having sex he was imagining that he was having sex with me a beautiful virgin that he never got to sleep with? haha
2006-11-21 18:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...really tricky question, my friend.
Well, considering it...generally my answer will be " I don't think so." If a man had slept with lots of woman or girl before, it would be definitely impossible for him to have the pleasure by imagining you. Surely in one moment of your sex pleasure, his mind will come across with other girls (whom he had experienced before). Besides that there are many other factors (in which I must not state here for I am like betraying my own kind or species. :>).
Whatever it will be, my friend, it does not happen in all men. Only certain and some men may have the genuine and true heart to show their love to you including during the time of having sex with you.
Overall, what I can say to you is the general rule is never ever trust a man easily. For if not...in most cases, you may end up being dumped or being used only.
Hope you get my point here.
2006-11-21 19:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Triplestars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to discourage you, a virgin is an attractive attribute, but only for the sake of not being in a position to compare, guys will fantasize about a naughty girl, which virgins have a hard time passing for
2006-11-21 19:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow GREAT question
2006-11-21 19:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by DannyC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop asking this stupid question
2006-11-21 19:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋